On 1/10/2015 Pippy said: Don't fool yourself into thinking there are good facilities out there, All of them, and I do mean all of them are overbooked and understaffed. At the very best your loved one will be neglected. At the very worst she will be abused both physically and emotionally.
You are absolutely wrong. You are the one who has no idea what you are talking about. My grandfather actually wanted to live in an assisted living center in Oklahoma after my grandmother died because so many of his other friends lived there and loved it. All types of activities, great food, great amenities. He did pay a pretty penny for it but perhaps that is why you aren't aware of the good ones. I know price can be a big factor on the type of facility and staff you will get. I am guessing that was the issue your friends or family had. We actually loved visiting him there because the grounds, buildings, dining halls, pool areas, recreation areas, tennis courts, and music pagoda were all so lovely. The employees were also great and highly trained. They put on musicals, took trips, had all kinds of different activiites that I actually wanted to live there. My uncle also went to a similar facility though it was located in Buffalo, NY. He was a judge and there were many people he knew there that were in the same field such as lawyers, other judges, doctors, etc... I have never seen two such nicely run facilities. I am sorry your loved one didn't have the same experience but that definitely doesn't mean others didn't.
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