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[IMW]

Ask him! If you're not comfortable with being that direct ask re his family, does he have kids, how he spends his time, etc.

Good luck.

[JBKO]

I don't really know how men wear rings these days lol. Maybe some of you do.

[JB116]

If it's a class ring it could just be that it doesn't fit anymore on his right hand if that's the one that was measured for it.

Don't be afraid...just ask him.

[lulu2]

If it's just a ring, why would you think he's married?

If he's interested in dating, why not say, you do not date married men.

[Tinkrbl44]

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@JBKO wrote:
Hi everyone. I will be completely transparent and say that I have met someone who is of interest to me😊. I do not know if he is married and I don't quite feel comfortable asking. He wears a ring on his left ring finger that looks like a typical male ring. It isn't a wedding band. What do you all think?

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@JBKO

I guess the caffeine hasn't kicked in for me yet, but I'm really not understanding you .... it doesn't look like a wedding ring, but somehow you think he might be married?    

All you have to do is spontaneously "notice" the ring and ask about it.  

However .......     Regardless of any jewelry on his left hand, you really need to verify his marital status ... STAT.  

[TX-starlight]

"MOST" single men would never wear a ring on their left hand. Just saying from many yrs of being single & always checking men out,lol. Also a man told me once, a single man usually wants everyone to know he is available, so they would never do this. BUT.... you never know til you ask. Go ahead & ask!!

[jaxs mom]

My husband wore his fathers masons ring before we were married. I don't know any men that wear a class ring as a wedding ring. 

[QueenDanceALot]

You could say, "Hey, nice wedding band!"

[QueenDanceALot]

At what age does a man stop wearing a class ring?

[MalteseMomma]

OMG!  Just ask him if he is married!! Do   you want to subject yourself to heartache by dating a married man??? Ask him,it is not an offensive question............