Retirement, is it what you envisioned? - Page 6

RealtyGal2 · ‎01-05-2017

@CrazyKittyLvr2 wrote:
Retired 4 yrs. ago this month. As far as not missing the stress, dealing with people and their problems and being able to avoid driving in snow and ice, yes it's great.

Otherwise, it's been DH's cancer, my sudden health issues, and a constant stream of Dr. appts., tests, surgeries, future surgery, PT, to say nothing of deductables, co-pays and out of pockets things. Luckily we can afford the money, but I being nothing but an ATM with a medical number.

On a less important note, I've aged alot in 4 years.

Some things go as planned and sometimes "stuff" happens. Life is full of surprises.

I agree, unfortunately I still have to work since I cannot live on my Social Security and do not have a husband. It has been at least one surgery a year for the last 5 years. Fortunatly, nothing really serious, just annoying and the drugs from my corneal transplants have aged my skin 20 years. I am grateful that my vision has improved and that my recent D&C indicated no cancer. Getting old is stressful. but better than the alternative.

Goodie2shoes · ‎04-30-2012

Retired nurse for nearly 3 years now, living my best life. Met a wonderful man 5 years younger than me, we go out to the movies, parties and travel. I was well prepared financially for retirement at age 66, had a knee replacement before retirement and need to have the other knee replaced now but putting it off for a while. Love it !

ANewHue · ‎11-21-2011

My DH retired and we got thrown into the role of caregivers. It's been extremely stressful for me which is why he decided to retire in the first place. I thought we would be doing all the things we never had the time to do. I'm hoping and praying things change for us , it's been three years now and I feel like our time is running low.

Tina From Georgia · ‎11-23-2010

I am 61 years young and was forced by health issues to retire from the insurance industry after 40 years. I am so depressed because of my health. I have had 5 back surgeries including having a neuro stimulator implanted in my spine.The pain is horrible and I try so hard to be normal. MY husband is an angel and really tries to make my day to day easier. I miss the interaction with my policyholders and the way each day was different. Please pray for me that I will get some peace in my life.

Lucky Charm · ‎03-09-2010

I retired on St. Valentine's day 17 years ago. Early 40s.

Love it.

The best part is being there for my family-- which now includes grandchildren.

I'm lucky to be there for them when I'm needed, and I know it.

No obnoxious sounding alarm clock to wake me---I sleep thru DH'S.

He's going to retire in 2 and a half years, (probably semi retire) and I so look forward to it.

sissel · ‎08-13-2010

Do what we want when we want. You really have to plan ahead with money, living off soc sec isn't the answer. So far with health is fine but got a living will with lawyer I will go to assist living so my DD will not have this problem she is not a health care worker & would not know how to handle me. Plus she has to work & not be able to handle my needs. My husband has the same plan. Some retired people need to do something every minute some don't. Some travel just depends on what you want. Bottom line, save up for retirement, pay off your house, just plan ahead. I have friends that are struggling because they never planned ahead.

CalminHeart · ‎03-09-2010

Retirement was the best think I've ever done for myself. It'll be three years in June. I worked parttime until December. But I love not working at all. I have lots more time to help take care of my 87 yr old dad and disabled sister. I also have a better social life than before. All in all, it's great!

AngelPuppy1 · ‎03-13-2010

I am sorry that you and your husband are experiencing so many health issues. Yes, you are certainly right in that we never know what is in store for us.

It is a relief though, isn't it not to have to deal with the stress of work issues, especially on top of all the other worries that you are currently dealing with?

I am only retired for a couple of months, so it's a little early for me to really give a complete and accurate answer. YES -- it is great! But, it is a huge change and adjustment! I am still trying to adjust to it and I am sure it will take me a while. I do not accept change lightly!

I have to say though that I am happy to be out of the work force. I was very, very tired and having health issues and DH has had severe health issues for quite a number of years and what a relief to be home for him and with him!!

I am not a person who has to be involved in tons of social activities. I have always been a homebody. Don't get me wrong -- I do like to get out and about a bit, but home is my refuge and I am most content there.

I highly recommend retirement!!!

"A day without sunshine is like, you know, night." - Steve Martin

chrystaltree · ‎05-10-2010

I'm sorry you have had such a rough patch but from what I see, that is far from the usual retirement experience. Observing friends, family and former co-workers; it seems to me that they don't change very much after retirement. Those who had health issues in the 40's 50's, 60's, still have them but those who were always strong, fit and active, remain that way. Illnesses and accidents happen to people of all ages, not just retirees. It's not a given that we get old and get sick. I find that the single most important factor that makes for a happy retirement is money. Those who have money to live the retirement they planned and to do the things that make them happy; enjoy retirement. It's easier to get over the rough patches when your finances don't suffer. But those who did not plan well for their finances, who can't do what they would like to do aren't very happy at all in their retirement years.