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On 1/1/2015 irishmama5 said: Honestly I truely admire those that do Random Acts of Kindness or any type of Charitable good and keep it to themselves. Like others have said sometimes all it takes is a smile or hug to make someones day.

I so agree with this, irishmama5.

If we want to share ideas here in the forums, we easily can talk about the good deeds of others instead of making it about ourselves.

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Few things reveal your intellect and your generosity of spirit—the parallel powers of your heart and mind—better than how you give feedback.~Maria Popova
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On 1/1/2015 lolakimono said:
On 1/1/2015 Bluegrassbaby said:

Lolakimono~What beautiful eyes....is this the one looking for a home or yours? If your friend loves cats.....I think it's a wonderful idea.

Simply precious {#emotions_dlg.wub}

He's looking for a home.

Mine are orangies.

This is another one, Xena.

xena

Here is her story: {#emotions_dlg.crying}

Xena had been living on her own near a nice lady’s house for almost a year when she got into trouble. Someone other than the nice lady used Xena for target practice and shot her with an arrow.

Scared and hurting Xena went to the only person she knew. Not knowing what else to do, the caring lady called Animal Control for help. The AC officer carefully picked Xena up and loaded her into the truck. However, Xena needed care quickly and the Animal Control staff vet had already left. . Xena was very lucky that the arrow did not go through any vital organs and was easily removed.

I have read where those who abuse animals become serial killers! Maybe someone could use the scumbag for target practice..Karma? I pray Xena finds a home..maybe they should send her to BestFriends in Utah!

Don't cry for a man who's left you--the next one may fall for your smile.
-- Mae West
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On 1/2/2015 feline groovy said:

Very nice thread, HD. Smile And HERE's an awesome organization/foundation that I've been a member of myself:

https://www.randomactsofkindness.org/

Fantastic website

you can connect to their social media links

sign up for their monthly email newsletter

join them

support them in unique ways

share stories and other fun stuff

use their free kindness resources

read their blog

HTH anyone {#emotions_dlg.biggrin}

Hi, feline groovy! This looks like a wonderful resource. Thanks for sharing it!{#emotions_dlg.thumbup}

Few things reveal your intellect and your generosity of spirit—the parallel powers of your heart and mind—better than how you give feedback.~Maria Popova
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On 1/3/2015 mominohio said:
On 1/1/2015 chickenbutt said:
On 1/1/2015 PatsyCline said:
On 1/1/2015 chickenbutt said:

The cool, random, and kind thing about these acts is that they are not broadcast or bragged about. The person does NOT take credit. Then it's good. Otherwise, it just seems like it's about the 'giver'. That just seems wrong to me.

It's wonderful to see people want to do something for somebody else, as long as they don't make it about them instead.

Yes you said it better than I did, real giving comes quietly, humbly, without boasting, without telling others, as my Pastor says. :-)


Smiley Happy You said it well. I'm non-religious so, other than that part of it, I TOTALLY agree with what you and MominOhio said. Smiley Happy

It just always bothered me when people took credit for good deeds. It always rather negated the whole 'good deed' aspect of it for me.

I agree with the anonymity aspect of it being important, whenever possible.

The two exceptions to this are to share those experiences in a place like this, because it give others ideas that they may never have thought of and perhaps lights the fire in others to do or give. Second, when teaching children, it is best learned by example, and so they need to see you do it, and you need to talk about why you do it with them, for them to learn and understand it.

Ooh, that's a great thought about teaching your children! I never had kids so the thought had not crossed my mind. Thank You for that reminder. I'd love to think that everybody teaches their children to be kind and to do for others (without recompense of course).

I had a horrible childhood, but that made me who I am in so many ways and fortunately I was able to see through some horrible behaviors in both parents, like bigotry, from a very young age. What I would have carried on was how wrong it is so that chain would be broken. I guess what I'm saying is that we can only hope that positive things come from both directions - the bad and the good. But there is no discounting that 'good' is better. Smiley Happy

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Thanks for this thread ladies... It is nice to come and read positive thought provoking ideas and reminders how to proceed in every day life. Sometimes the simplest gesture makes the most positive impact in someone's life. We are all fighting a battle...sometimes I forget when I get in the way...lol.
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On 1/1/2015 Preds said:

You never know when just one word, one gesture, one smile, one deed will make a difference. Use every day and every gesture to it's best. We are here for a reason ... make it a good one.

One of my favorite quotes of all time... 8)

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On 1/3/2015 dooBdoo said:
On 1/2/2015 feline groovy said:

Very nice thread, HD. Smile And HERE's an awesome organization/foundation that I've been a member of myself:

https://www.randomactsofkindness.org/

Fantastic website

you can connect to their social media links

sign up for their monthly email newsletter

join them

support them in unique ways

share stories and other fun stuff

use their free kindness resources

read their blog

HTH anyone {#emotions_dlg.biggrin}

Hi, feline groovy! This looks like a wonderful resource. Thanks for sharing it!{#emotions_dlg.thumbup}

Hi, Doobie babe! Anytime... Kiss

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On 1/3/2015 mominohio said:
On 1/1/2015 chickenbutt said:
On 1/1/2015 PatsyCline said:
On 1/1/2015 chickenbutt said:

The cool, random, and kind thing about these acts is that they are not broadcast or bragged about. The person does NOT take credit. Then it's good. Otherwise, it just seems like it's about the 'giver'. That just seems wrong to me.

It's wonderful to see people want to do something for somebody else, as long as they don't make it about them instead.

Yes you said it better than I did, real giving comes quietly, humbly, without boasting, without telling others, as my Pastor says. :-)


Smiley Happy You said it well. I'm non-religious so, other than that part of it, I TOTALLY agree with what you and MominOhio said. Smiley Happy

It just always bothered me when people took credit for good deeds. It always rather negated the whole 'good deed' aspect of it for me.

I agree with the anonymity aspect of it being important, whenever possible.

The two exceptions to this are to share those experiences in a place like this, because it give others ideas that they may never have thought of and perhaps lights the fire in others to do or give. Second, when teaching children, it is best learned by example, and so they need to see you do it, and you need to talk about why you do it with them, for them to learn and understand it.

ITA!

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I bookmarked the site and will check it out tomorrow.

Thanks for posting it!

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On 1/3/2015 Bestdressed said: Thanks for this thread ladies... It is nice to come and read positive thought provoking ideas and reminders how to proceed in every day life. Sometimes the simplest gesture makes the most positive impact in someone's life. We are all fighting a battle...sometimes I forget when I get in the way...lol.

I agree.