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[luvmyteddy4]

I am looking at charms on eBay and there were many for sell by the sale seller that I wanted but the seller had them all listed about 3 days apart. I sent her an email and asked if she combined lower shipping on more than one and different ones and she said yes. Her shipping fees were the highest of all of them selling these charms but I could get it for .99 if I won and shipping was 3.99.

So I bid and won one and sent her another email that I would pay for both at the same time if I won the other one and would that be okay. She never stated in her ad that you had to pay within a certain time frame. I never heard back and got nervous since I didn't know how fast I had to pay. I sent her another note and said I would go ahead and pay for the first one but wanted a discount on shipping for the second one and to not ship the first one until the second bidding ended. Which will be today.

I always pay for items asap but in this case I did not because of the shipping discount and what she told me. She has not responded to my last 3 emails but I did get the email telling me it was shipped out today.

I will probably win the second one today, now I hope not, but I don't want it if I have to pay the full shipping price again. This charm probably cost .50 to mail. I know they up shipping charges incase they don't make much on the item but I was going by what she told me in the beginning. I don't want to pay 4.00 again. Am I wrong? Can you get out of a bid? Since she won't answer me I don't know what to do. Sorry this is so long... I won't bid like this again.

So what happens if I win and don't pay. I have never done that before but I have never had someone not answer me back and let me know what's going on.

She also re-listed the item she mailed me today but she could have more than one.