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[haddon9]

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@scatcatwrote:

I walk in, go to the bathroom, wash my hands and walk out

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...and I'd like to add that I never sit on the seat so no need for a seat cover.

[Marienkaefer2]

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@occasionalrainwrote:

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@chrystaltreewrote:

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@RedTopwrote:

Since toilet height is easier on my knees, I always choose the handicapped stall.   

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        Me too!   I use the handicapped stall because fewer people use it and there's always toilet paper in it.  It's weird, I've seen women wait in long lines, bouncing around with a bursting bladder and they won't go into the handicapped stall.  No doubt, it hasn't been used all day....bizarre.  

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It's not bizarre, it's proper behavior. I don't park in handicapped spaces and I don't use stalls meant for those who are handicapped. That no handicapped person is about is no excuse for using their parking spaces or their restroom stalls.

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I disagree. 

A restroom is not the same as a parking space.  When you see the push buttons that open doors (meant for disabled) do you not use them if you're carrying several things?

When you see a ramp going up alongside some steps, and you're pulling a rolling suitcase (for example), do you not use it?

The fact is, a lot of conveniences that were instituted for those with disabilities also can and do benefit everyone.  That's why adhering to ADA policies is good for everyone.

There's nothing wrong with using a handicapped stall.  You're out of there in a minute or two (normally.)

[SunValley]

I have used public and office restrooms for decades without ever contracting the dire diseases my mother warned about. I use common sense in public facilities but honestly, I am more worried by germs on door handles exiting and entering, and shopping cart handles.

[DearPrudence]

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@Marienkaefer2wrote:

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@occasionalrainwrote:

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@chrystaltreewrote:

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@RedTopwrote:

Since toilet height is easier on my knees, I always choose the handicapped stall.   

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        Me too!   I use the handicapped stall because fewer people use it and there's always toilet paper in it.  It's weird, I've seen women wait in long lines, bouncing around with a bursting bladder and they won't go into the handicapped stall.  No doubt, it hasn't been used all day....bizarre.  

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It's not bizarre, it's proper behavior. I don't park in handicapped spaces and I don't use stalls meant for those who are handicapped. That no handicapped person is about is no excuse for using their parking spaces or their restroom stalls.

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I disagree. 

A restroom is not the same as a parking space.  When you see the push buttons that open doors (meant for disabled) do you not use them if you're carrying several things?

When you see a ramp going up alongside some steps, and you're pulling a rolling suitcase (for example), do you not use it?

The fact is, a lot of conveniences that were instituted for those with disabilities also can and do benefit everyone.  That's why adhering to ADA policies is good for everyone.

There's nothing wrong with using a handicapped stall.  You're out of there in a minute or two (normally.)

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It is illegal to park in a handicapped parking spot unless you have a permit, however it is not illegal to use a handicapped stall if you're not handicapped.  The stalls are there because most public buildings are required to provide washroom facilities that are accessible, but they're not required to be dedicated to only handicapped people. 

[SunValley]

One has to have a legal permit to use handicapped parking; there is no permit required to use a restroom that is handicapped accessible, just as anyone can walk on a ramp that is wheelchair accessible.

[Carmie]

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@occasionalrainwrote:

I don't fault those men for their anger. What would women do if a man locked them out of their bathroom while he used. Your issues are yours not innocent strangers to accommodate. Presumptuous to travel knowing your problem not caring  that you will inconvenience others.

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I hope and pray that you never have digestive issues.  It’s not like I have problems every day or even that often.  I get no warning at all.  It’s a handicap that I have to live with.  We all have issues from time to time.

If a man, woman or child had an emergency and locked me out of the rest room for a few minutes, i wouldn’t mind.  I try to be understanding.

What do you do when you are behind someone who walks with a walker and they are in front of you when you are in a hurry?  Is it presumptuous for them to leave the house because they might inconvenience others?  Do you get close and intimidate them to walk faster?

i am still shaking my head in disbelief.  I can’t believe you posted that. 

[JeanLouiseFinch]

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@chrystaltreewrote:

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@RedTopwrote:

Since toilet height is easier on my knees, I always choose the handicapped stall.   

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        Me too!   I use the handicapped stall because fewer people use it and there's always toilet paper in it.  It's weird, I've seen women wait in long lines, bouncing around with a bursting bladder and they won't go into the handicapped stall.  No doubt, it hasn't been used all day....bizarre.  

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OMG, me too!  I'm always wondering, though, if there's a handicapped person waiting on me and if they'll make a fuss when they see me walk out.  We've replaced all the toilets in our home with the tall ones and it's so much nicer.  Now I hate it if I have to use a low one.  I feel like I'm like a little kid sitting there  and I worry about being able to get up when I'm finished.  I've been known to ask for a handicapped room in a hotel, if they have extras available, just so I can get a high toilet sitting toilet!  

[Caffeina]

The first thing I do after entering a stall is check the toilet paper. There should be enough of it, the end shouldn't be stuck to the roll, and the roll should spin freely.

[cherry]

@Carmie  part of the problem woman face is there are always more of us needing to use the toilet , because we  always have kids in tow and men usually don't

I went on a pilgrimage  and   there were a few busloads of us . All of the woman's toilets were lined up with ladies waiting their turn. But, not many men go to stuff like that, so we used their toilet too

WE made sure that someone stood at the door, to warn the men what was going on. But none appeared.  I don't fault you for doing what you did. I think most of us would do the same under your circumstances

[JeanLouiseFinch]

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@Carmiewrote:

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@occasionalrainwrote:

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@chrystaltreewrote:

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@RedTopwrote:

Since toilet height is easier on my knees, I always choose the handicapped stall.   

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        Me too!   I use the handicapped stall because fewer people use it and there's always toilet paper in it.  It's weird, I've seen women wait in long lines, bouncing around with a bursting bladder and they won't go into the handicapped stall.  No doubt, it hasn't been used all day....bizarre.  

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It's not bizarre, it's proper behavior. I don't park in handicapped spaces and I don't use stalls meant for those who are handicapped. That no handicapped person is about is no excuse for using their parking spaces or their restroom stalls.

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I use any empty stall I can get into in an emergency, even the men’s room.

i used the men’s room in Vietnam in a restaurant.  My DH used it first.  He said there were many stalls in there and the main bathroom door locked from the inside. So it was an emergency...I have Digestive problems.  I went in, the coast was clear and I locked the door.

There were men outside pounding to get in.  When I came out and they saw I was a woman, they were on fire angry.  I have no idea what they were saying, but I could read their minds.  I know they were not saying nice things.

I didn’t want to have an accident then have to ride on a bus all day in soiled clothing.  LOL everything turned out well.  I got out of there alive and clean.

I went out of town for a street fair once and the same thing happened.  I used the men’s room and when I came out and started to apologize to a man who was standing there with my head down to avoid eye contact...I heard him say “ Carmie, is that you?”  When I looked up, it was my boss.  OMG, I was so embarrassed.  He was a really nice man and a gentleman so nothing was ever said about it.  Phew!

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