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@SouthernBee 

 

like @geezerette asked - was she always this way

 

we are always the same in our core - we just have traits that become more pronounced as we get older - and as we get older - we dont want to deal with those irksome traits anymroe - 

 

good luck - 

 

just a thought... when she asks again about something that you have expressed no interest - like the book club

 

dont you remember - i already told you i wasnt interested or have you forgotten again

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@SouthernBee 

 

think she want to be club president

leader of the pack

 

wasn't that in high school?

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@Yahooey @geezerette : Thank you. Always helpful and great suggestions. I asked DH if it was me. He stated " No". He has never really liked her and has firmly told her several times " no" and not to bring that subject up . One time: DH and our brother keepers group leader went in a restaurant and she was there with  her group. She kept interrupting them when they were trying to order, she insisted they needed to join her group, DH and friend got up and left the restaurant and didn't say anything when they walked out.

She stated today that we will be walking next week. I didn't say anything .  DH has  doctor appointments next week and other things and I will not be available. She always waits at the last minute to notify me but she probably already knows she will be walking but not including me but just wants to keep me waiting. I have one outfit to wear when I walk with them  and I refuse to get up every day and put that on and wait to see if she calls. I have other stuff to do. 😊😀..I so mean.

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@SouthernBee 

 

I agree..with others..she wants everything her way....and i wouldn't go either...just say

No , I told you no!!  and hang up the phoneSmiley LOL

 

You don't owe her a reason not to be with her!😡🤬

 

Don't let her take up space in your mind!

 

Sending you 🤗and be Strong!

 

lubs ya!Heart

 

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dear predsHeart  and friendsHeart

I saw a Monarch butterfly on my flowers near my front door Saturday....and i saw it again in my yard a bit ago!Smiley Happy

 

I went with my friends the married couple out to the family resturant in nearby town around 5 pm.

I know a friend is asking what i ate?Heart

Mear loaf =2 slices,smashed taters..no gravey,salad,dr. pepper....i gave my green beans to friends dh.

They had gravey on theirs, he had hers and mine small dish of gbeans.

We all brought home most of our meals.

 

A bit after i was home..phone rang and i went walking with neighbor lady.Over a mile!

Oh,i found  my missing pearl earring in carpet by wall in bedroom by accident today!It had been missing for a few months...but decided it wanted to be foundSmiley LOL

 

lubs ya!Heart

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@cowboy sam : Thank you. I have been busy trying to change the settings on my land line phone. @Marp suggested putting my phone group in slient mode and this allows friends and family to call and everything else blocked. I had to find my phone user manual on line. I still don't understand this stuff and very confused but this will be interesting to see if this makes a difference tomorrow.

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@cowboy sam 

 

it sounds like you bounced back from ur ordeal with the bedsheets

 

good fudz w/friends is extra special

 

no gravy smh.... one of these day.... u will surprise me 😃 

 

an earring was waiting to be found... yippee

 

today was sure dif from yesterday bummer

 

♥️ 

 

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@SouthernBee 

 

Did you order the cell phone case that gardenman suggested? I was just wondering as i know you have so many things/perssons ons on your mind now..🤗.

I would also be overwealmed  right now   as you are..

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@cowboy sam : Yes, decided to order what @gardman suggested. My other friend had suggested something else but knowing what gardenman suggested and that it fit.

I am mentally and physically worn out.


@cowboy sam wrote:

@SouthernBee 

 

Did you order the cell phone case that gardenman suggested? I was just wondering as i know you have so many things/perssons ons on your mind now..🤗.

I would also be overwealmed  right now   as you are..

lubs ya!Heart


 

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