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[SouthernBee]

@geezerette : I was trying to find photos wearing the cowboy hats.🤓🤓🤓

Plus I have two SIL's sending me text . The oldest brother had to be air lifted or whatever the correct term, last night to a better hospital in Virginia . We are receiving conflicting information. Last night was told brain dead and had died. Now  told had abdominal aneuysm, then during flight had stroke and blood clot in brain. Latest info that he is in surgery for whatever and fighting to live. The second sil  don't like any contact with her because she is known to exaggeate  and lot of drama.🙄🙄🙄😯😯

[geezerette]

@SouthernBee 

Oh my goodness, what news to be getting and not be sure what is right or wrong!  Is there someone else you can contact to find out what is actually happening?

I'm so sorry to hear this for you.  It sounds like even the 'better' news isn't very good. ☹️

[SouthernBee]

@geezerette : Thanks. But no one else to contact: family history and drama. I haven't met all of DH siblings. So many half brothers and sisters but DH never calls them that but just brother and sister. DH hasn't heard from his oldest brother in years and his wife was a drama queen and  always causing trouble. He was just given her phone number and prefers not to call. DH has one brother and one sister in our city. The other sister is in smaller town 45 minutes away and she is another drama queen.

I am reading text messages and we are not answering the phone: they can leave a message. 

DH already dealing with a lot of stuff and not feeling great.

[geezerette]

@SouthernBee 

I can understand.

My DH had a lot of drama trying to deal with his family too.  They seemed to thrive on it.  But the added stress is not good when you're already not feeling well.

❤️

[SouthernBee]

@geezerette : Good morning. We are still waiting for some information or update. I left my cell phone on and keep getting alerts for stormy weather in our area. 

I forgot  to mention that DH has 5 sisters . I have only met 3 and talked on the phone to 1 that lives in Arizona and limit my calls with her. DH has 4 brothers and one is his twin and not identical ( forgot the correct word). One brother lives in our town. Many contacts because he sells insurance. Haven't met the other brothers: they never call ,no emails . Really sad. DH was raised by his step father and no information on his real father: many lies told over the years. DH mother died a few years ago: always causing trouble with the siblings. She visited us one year and insisted on living with us.She stayed two days. DH put her in his car and took her to his brother. DH never answered the phone and returned all her mail unopened. He opened one letter and it was full of lies . When she died DH gave some money for the funeral and we went to the funeral. The stepdad lived in our town and DH always helped him. He died in 2005. DH has a good relationship with the 1 brother and 1 sister living in our town.

[loveschocolate]

@cowboy sam , hugs 🤗❤️

[loveschocolate]

@SouthernBee , hugs to y'all also. 🤗❤️

[SouthernBee]

@loveschocolate : Thanks. Hope you are doing good.🙏❤❤🤗🤗

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@loveschocolate wrote:

@SouthernBee , hugs to y'all also. 🤗❤️

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[cowboy sam]

@loveschocolate 

Thank you!🤗

lubs ya!

[cowboy sam]

dear preds  and dear friends

@SouthernBee @loveschocolate @geezerette @Yahooey 

Won't add to the drama..

but

will say.... i went to lunch with pancake sis 😯 and her neighbor....

her neighbor missed me  and hugged me!

By the time i got home my stomach was in knots!😣🤐Not good!

Her neighbor wasn't very happy either!

@SouthernBee .. hang in there...🤗

lubs ya!