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[SouthernBee]

@geezerette @cowboy sam : Thank you and totally agree. I am dealing with too much and time for DH to deal with extra stuff.❤🤗🙏

[SouthernBee]

@cowboy sam @geezerette : Sister in law came over with peaches and so excited about her great work. I stayed in my recliner and let her and DH go in the kitchen.She didn't use enough fruit fresh and not enough juice to cover the peaches. There were 10 containers. I struggled to remove the dark peaches and had a gallon bag to throw in the trash. Added extra fruit fresh, then more sugar to make more peach juice. I had 6 containers and peaches covered in juice. I struggled to stand for hour to do everything. DH and sister went to lunch. DH returned in time to put peaches in freezer. DH said he would clean the kitchen. I am physically and mentally worn out. Hope not to see or hear anything for a few days.

[SouthernBee]

@cowboy sam @geezerette @Yahooey @PamfromCT :I researched all over about the cell phone and read a lot of reviews. Plus compared my current phone specifications to a new one. Praying that I made a good choice. My current phone not keeping a charge. Today it didn't charge to 100% and quickly dropped. I turned the phone off. Purchased frm from HSN:

[Yahooey]

@SouthernBee 

i would think common sense for anyone that cooks

cover stuff so it doesnt peek out and turn brown

she has received jars from you in the past and you gave her the recipe

u can lead a horse to water but cant make it cover the darn peaches

i have no words except a whole bunch of expletives and emojis 

let DH deal with the mess which he probably created 30 years ago

every time princess wants something - the wallet opens

and until the wallet closes - he is her personal ATM

she is living within her means bc the ATM covers everything... problem solved

until he does something drastic which he wont 

it is what it is

do NOT put yourself in peril

if you need money for outside help

get it - her iphone is a luxury

sorry - i'm so PO reading your post

shame shame shame on her

[Yahooey]

evening everyone

counter is installed - yay

they called 1/2 hr before arrival  - window was 10-2

they arrived 1130 - and done in an hr

ai lubs it - contractor returning next week

light grey veining on dark charcoal base -ike soapstone

[SouthernBee]

@Yahooey : Thank you and totally agree on both issues.

DH said not to say any thing else to his sister about the peaches and don't tell her to do more on her peaches.He was upset that I still had to struggle to redo the peaches. 

I didn't like spending extra for my cell phone but felt that a better battery was necessary.

I am so mad with daughter. I told her not to expect more groceries from me because my expenses have increased and many of my things are now necessary and told her she needs to provide for her family and live on her income.

I will try to limit my contact with sister in law. 

I am still researching stuff and need to make more decisions.

I forgot about ordering more groceries for us.🙄😮😯

[SouthernBee]

@Yahooey : Everything looks wonderful and so excited for you.!!! Food prep and cooking will be so much easier.Thanks for sharing and looking forward to more updates and photos.❤❤❤❤

[geezerette]

@Yahooey 

How exciting that your kitchen is taking shape!

It's going to be absolutely beautiful! 😻

[geezerette]

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@Yahooey wrote:

@SouthernBee 

i would think common sense for anyone that cooks

cover stuff so it doesnt peek out and turn brown

she has received jars from you in the past and you gave her the recipe

@

i have no words except a whole bunch of expletives and emojis 

let DH deal with the mess which he probably created 30 years ago

every time princess wants something - the wallet opens

and until the wallet closes - he is her personal ATM

she is living within her means bc the ATM covers everything... problem solved

until he does something drastic which he wont 

it is what it is

do NOT put yourself in peril

if you need money for outside help

get it - her iphone is a luxury

sorry - i'm so PO reading your post

shame shame shame on her

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@Yahooey 

😂  I love it!  And I agree with everything else you said too.

@SouthernBee 

I'm so glad you put your foot down with DD and told her of your own more pressing needs (not "wants"!), and that you will be letting DH deal with SIL.  It sounds like maybe he is getting fed up with both as well.

You have to take care of yourself now and let the others deal with their own problems.  Not because you don't care, but because you have no other choice.  DH will regret not being more proactive if you end up in the hospital or worse trying to please everyone else and neglecting your own health.

Take care, sweet lady! ❤️

[SouthernBee]

@geezerette : Thank you and totally agree.Yea, my phone has shipped. 

Hope you are feeling good and enjoy your weekend.🤗🙏❤❤