Good morning y'all: I need to find me a good multiple vitamin, tired of being tired.
Need to share a few things.
Pancake widow stopped by the other day. Our church joined another church group and our area agency for elderly and handicapped to have a food box for the community. Pancake went and she was given the extras for herself, our other friend and me. Yes, I appreciated her help and the food. Mine was in a tote bag and box included a big bunch of collards, carrots , potatoes, apples, bell pepper , and a water mellon. I thanked her. The she stated: I know how picky you are about your collards and made sure you received the biggest and beautiful bunch. I just stared a her. I didn't feel good and this was the day that would have been my brother's birthday. Yes, the night and morning before my brother died, she was with me at the hospice facility and I will never forget this. But with her visit and food delivery didn't have the energy for a long talk or discussion and told her. She decided to stay. Our church has several different groups for monthly fellowship called Brother's Keepers: she has a group and for the last two years has tried to get us to leave our preferred group to join hers. DH and I have repeatedly stressed "no thank you", but today she started that conversation🙄🙄🙄. I told her not interested and do not ever ask us again. I told her that I was tired and needed to rest. She stated she would contact me about walking. She and other friend are in the Church book club that meets on Thursday morning and trying to get me going again( previously tried it but they insist on having everyone bring something for a pot luck lunch and they have a tendency to read the same books over and over: so not interested).
Pancake called this morning and tried to catch me off guard. She asked me how to cook collards. Then stated she would pick me up around 11:00 to include going to the book club and afterwards we could walk. Told her not interested in joining the book club . Told her not dressed to go out and was doing laundry. It's all about her, what she says and does , her friends need to do whatever she says or has scheduled. I will try to have a conversation with her when feeling better.
Also , I gave her a letter a couple years ago asking to suspend all gift giving and she has not honored my request. So on this visit she mentioned our friend and my birthday being soon and we needed to plan a party. Told her that I wasn't interested and please exclude me: she replied : " No".😮😮😮🙄🙄🙄!!!! My birthday will be on a Sunday and DH and I have all ready decided to miss that service. My other friend and another church friends birthday are the Saturday before that Sunday. Years past, I would go with all these ladies for birthday lunch, party or what ever and it was just too much plus Pancake all ways called the night before or morning of the event to notify everyone. Yes, I can afford the gifts but not all the drama and stress. Thank you for letting me vent.🤗❤