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I'm so sorry for what you and your husband are going thru, especially when you can't be with him. You will both be in my prayers. Remember, you need to take care of yourself, too.

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@gidgetgh 

 

 

I'm so sorry about your husband, and hope that he makes a quick recovery.

 

 

 

I think that there has to be a way for hospitals to make it safe for both patients and visitors to be in the same room together.

 

Gowns, mask?

 

 

I agree that it's cruel to keep families apart though.

 

 

 

 

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My heart breaks for you.  The terror and the fear that you are going through is overwhelming.  May you find comfort in being able to see and spend time with him in hospital.  May you find the strength needed to endure.  May your husband find peace and comfort in having you near.  I am so sorry for the sorrow you are experiencing.  There are no words of comfort that will remove your heart ache.  May the good Lord be kind to you.

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I'm so sorry. This is already such a difficult time and you're dealing with so much more. Hang in there 😉

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@gidgetgh .........How awful.  But the 2 of you are through the ruff part now and you can relax a little.  They will find the cause soon.  I know its will be hard to do but you need to have some time for you to relax and get some much needed sleep.  You dont need both of you down.  If possible get some type of light sleep aid to help you.

 

Everything will look better after a good sleep.  I am praying for you and hubby.

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Intellectually, you know your DH is where he needs to be, is getting the care, attention and rest he needs.  I am praying for the same for you
 
Regardless the outcome, the worry, stress and fear of this situation won’t easily fade from your psyche.  It gets embedded.  So, please take it from someone whose “been there,” and, as much as is possible, try to focus on your own care.   Be sure to eat well, sleep whenever you can, accept offered help and search for even the smallest things for which to be grateful.  It is my experience the more Good you look for, the more you will find.  The power of attraction, I guess. 
 
@gidgetgh , you and your DH will stay in my prayers.  I pray you can trust and be sustained by faith in God’s Love.      Sincerely, Mrs. G
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@gidgetgh I am happy you felt comfortable in posting your story and hope that our words of comfort can bring you a bit of solace. You have been very brave to share your life events, from cleaning your basement, to selling your husband's truck, and now this most recent and scary hospitalization. 

 

I cannot imagine having a very ill loved one hospitalized with no diagnosis and unable to be there. I am so glad they are easing up on visitation rules and you will soon be able to hold his hand.

 

I will embrace your spirit in positivity and energy that your husband is able to fight off this illness.❣️ 

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So sorry for what you and your husband are going through. My prayers are with you both. My sister is in a nursing home and she  also has Parkinsons. She has had episodes of confusion in the past and they have been able to adjust her medications so she is coherent now. She survived covid 19 and is doing pretty good now. Again I pray for your husbands recovery