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Re: Passive ?? Aggressive ??

On 10/29/2014 Jig Saw said:
On 10/29/2014 cody said:

You two.

Does this work?

Few things reveal your intellect and your generosity of spirit—the parallel powers of your heart and mind—better than how you give feedback.~Maria Popova
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Re: Passive ?? Aggressive ??

On 10/29/2014 dooBdoo said:
On 10/29/2014 Jig Saw said:
On 10/29/2014 cody said:

You two.

Does this work?

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Re: Passive ?? Aggressive ??

On 10/29/2014 dooBdoo said:
On 10/29/2014 Jig Saw said:
On 10/29/2014 cody said:

Kiss

{#emotions_dlg.laugh}

You two.{#emotions_dlg.laugh}

Does this work?{#emotions_dlg.rolleyes}

That ALWAYS works, lol. I don't know why the Q even has that one as an option.

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Re: Passive ?? Aggressive ??

Shut your mouth!I love the

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These two can cause so much trouble:

{#emotions_dlg.lol} and {#emotions_dlg.rolleyes}

These two, too: cody and Jigsaw . . .Wink

Few things reveal your intellect and your generosity of spirit—the parallel powers of your heart and mind—better than how you give feedback.~Maria Popova
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Re: Passive ?? Aggressive ??

On 10/29/2014 dooBdoo said:

These two can cause so much trouble:

{#emotions_dlg.lol} and {#emotions_dlg.rolleyes}

These two, too: cody and Jigsaw . . .Wink

We do our best. {#emotions_dlg.thumbup1}

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Re: Passive ?? Aggressive ??

According to psychologists...

Passive aggression is a deliberate and masked way of expressing covert feelings of anger.

Couched in backhanded compliments, insulting gifts, hostile sticky notes, and behind angry smiles, passive aggression involves a variety of behaviors (hence, the overuse of the term) designed to get back at another person without the passive aggressor having to own up to or articulate their true feelings. Passive aggression is motivated by a person's fear of expressing anger directly.

Passive aggressive people take genuine pleasure in frustrating others. They are masters at getting others to act out their angry feelings--to explode and appear crazy--while the passive aggressive person sits back and watches the emotional outburst with satisfaction, total control, and always with their own poise intact.

{#emotions_dlg.thumbdown}

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feline: Well stated. This has been a very interesting and informative thread. Thanks, OP.

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My 1st (ex) husband was passive aggressive controlling you name it he was it. That's why hes my EX husband and not my current (2nd) husband! lol.

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Re: Passive ?? Aggressive ??

A good example: I have a relative who is passive/aggressive about many things. He will never do anything for you the first time you ask because he doesn't like to be "told" to do anything for anyone.

So, he'll get it done when he gets it done. Deliberately, he will delay action just to prove his point (silently, of course).

They don't want to have a full out confrontation, but they'll get you another way. He will admit he runs from confrontation--so he's figured out how to irritate the other person. He admits he's passive/aggressive. Something to be proud of, right?