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[KKJ]

While I don't find it creepy or weird if some wonder about a poster, I don't understand getting  ___hurt if people don't ask where you are. 

[jubilant]

@Jo1313 

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@Jo1313 wrote:

I was gone for 4 months a couple of years ago..I was in the hospital..No one noticed..when I felt better I just popped back in..as I usually did.

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 I think that is probably the best way to go.

There can be so many reasons why some are missing at times and it would be 

impossible to keep track of them. Some

you know....some you don't know....that's 

just the way it is for most, if not all of us.

[qualitygal]

Oh there you are, thought you were just goofing around.  ROFLOL.

[Greeneyedlady21]

She has mentioned painful losses in her life, so maybe she comes here for some friendship and as a brief escape from loneliness.

Kindness and empathy, they're both free

[Sage04]

Isn't there someone with a similar name with numbers added? If so, I've posted with her. She posted about having surgery on her wrist. That's the only poster I know with golden in her name. Haven't seen her in a while.

[Cakers3]

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@KKJ wrote:

While I don't find it creepy or weird if some wonder about a poster, I don't understand getting  ___hurt if people don't ask where you are. 

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@KKJ I have to say I do not get this either.

The threads/posts lately have been directed to posters who have shared their journey with terminally ill loved ones and/or remembrances of posters who have passed away.

If this thread is a joke as some believe, it isn't funny.

If not then there are seven pages of mostly supportive responses  which have not been acknowledged by @goldensrbest .

Many of us are dealing with serious issues and come here for support. Many of us share but many of us do not.

It isn't about being popular. It's simply not everyone knows about everyone so if a poster hasn't been around someone may notice and someone may not.

[cody2]

I have left for years at a time. Nobody missed me. But what really hurt was when I DID return, nobody remembered me.

[Nancy Drew]

Could be worse. I was gone for awhile, someone asked about me. Posters decided it was a great opportunity to bash me. Quite the pile on. I put it in perspective and then found it funny. 

[cody2]

@september I knew when you were missing. You used to live close to me and then you went back east. And we both had the same issues with our husband's health. So yes. I am always glad to see you here and doing well.

[Trinity11]

I thought of you @goldensrbest . I also noticed Mj12, Paixmcdao, suzyQ3, Porcelain, GenxMuse, JJsMom are not posting. I did see that Sillimee changed her nic. I do notice when posters are not posting. I miss their input.💕

Missing dooBdoo as well.❤️