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Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please

Please get your locks changed instead. He could make a copy and then give you your key back.

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Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please

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I don't know enough to say as much as you might like, but I do think that, for some reason, you are creating a fight or a situation. Being demanding or clingy or angry because you think he owes you something probably will do more harm than good, to be honest. In your comments, I am hearing about you but not hearing that you are concerned about him if you don't hear from him,. I Would think you might be wondering if HE is ok, if something might be troubling HIM in his life, if his mom is ok, etc. If it's all about you, maybe there isn't enough room for him? I may be way off-base, but that is what I think I am hearing. I also am wondering what he might be hiding from you!mis it really his mother he is visiting?

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Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please

I think you should cut ties.  You told him what you needed and he didn't do it.  If he has any respect Forsyth, he would at least try.  Excuses don't cut it.

 

It's probably not a good idea to have the dates at your house.  Have the guy pick you up and go out on a date.

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Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please

My landlord will flip changing out door knobs in two doors.

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Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please


@MacDUFF wrote:

He's just not that into you.

 

I hope you find someone who is...ain't nothin' like the real thing, baby.

 


Took the words right out of my mouth.

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Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please

I left my jewelry with him and $1,000 and he gave it back to me with everything there.

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Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please


@DowntonAbbey wrote:

I left my jewelry with him and $1,000 and he gave it back to me with everything there.

 

 

But you say that you're poor and have no money!


 

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Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please


@DowntonAbbey wrote:

My landlord will flip changing out door knobs in two doors.


 

 

I cannot imagine he'd be happy to hear a total stranger (to him) has possession of a key to his property.

Strive for respect instead of attention. It lasts longer.
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Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please

I know he does take her to church every sunday she is 79 and sometimes she meets him there but when the phone rings it does say MOTHER.......if he had a wife then she would see that on his phone but he is not married, he has not children, he was in our singles group and has dated one other woman I know I would just like to know from her what he was like with her but he told me she was jealous all the time about his female friends......well I am not the jealous type and I always ask how his mother is and I know he sees her every sunday and that is great becasue he would then come and see me and she calls him every night at 10:30 before she goes to bed. This man has no children and he does not really know how to share........he is very quite and that is fine and he loved that I am girly girl and he would always answer the phone when I called and I was supposed to go help him with an event and his co-worker which is a lady yesterday but I was sick and tired from the long time I spent in Houston and it is not about me I only want a good morning text each day and a goodnight call when he is at his home town.  It is that easy. 

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Re: Not A Bash BUT an Opinion please

Please change your locks. Be done with this guy.