You asked for opinions, so I am going to give it.
Once again you are beeing needy, clingy and demanding.
You are demanding that he texts you every single morning and night.
By doing that you are pushing him far, far away.
You demanded that this guy be there at your beck and call, for whatever whim that you may have.
Guys do NOT like that.
No wonder he stopped texting you.
I would too, if any guy made those demands of me.
You still think that everything has to be a fairytale romance.
Real life doesn't work that way.
You think that you NEED a man in your life in order to be happy and complete. You think that you MUST have a man in your life. You think that you HAVE to have a man in your life.
That is totally and completely and 100% false thinking.
No woman NEEDS to have a man in her life in order to be happy and "complete".
He probably was interested in you as a friend, but then you and went and started to put all of these demands on him, and that's why he has stopped texting you.
Not because of his mother.
Not because he's hiding something (which I highly doubt that he is)
It's because of you.
YOU drove him away.
If you hadn't been so demanding of him, he might still be around.
You are so desperate to have a man in your life, any man, that when he starts to show the slightest bit of interest, you immediately go in to hyper drive.
Men can smell desperation a mile away, and it's a major turn OFF for them.
How about taking things slow for a change?
Have you ever heard of playing hard to get?
Men like the chase.
Instead of DEMANDING that he MUST text you every morning and night, let him text, call and visit on his own schedule.
How about letting a relationship develop and blossom naturally, instead of trying to FORCE it to happen.
And the line about your landlord having a fit over changing the locks?
That's total b.s.
I can guarantee you that when one tenant moves out, the locks are changed before the new tenant moves in, so I highly doubt that your landlord would have a problem with you changing the locks.
In fact, they wouldn't want a possible lawsuit on their hands if they didn't change the locks after you gave someone your key, because as someone else said, he could have had copies made.
They wouldn't want to run the risk of you suing them, should anything bad happen to you, because he had a copy, and they didn't change the locks.
It's that simple.
And as for the comment of his having said that he found an angel and he clipped her wings to keep you from flying away, yeah, that isn't "romantic", it's downright creepy.
It smacks of ownership.
But, then again, you wanted to own him with your unrealistic demands.
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