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[DowntonAbbey]

How is he or was he just a friend HE SAID I DON"T WANT TO SEE ANYONE BUT YOU AND I DON"T WANT YOU TO DATE ANYONE BUT ME  I want you to be my girlfriend so I said yes.......he was kind, not a drinker or gambler goes to church seemed normal and you are right he thought he liked me and he is just not into me and I think he did ignore me so i would break up with him instead of him being the bad guy. We are both great people just not meant to be together.  I know me that adore their women and text and call them so maybe some of you ladies don't want what you call clingy and i call that some attention of consideration and letting me know they respect what makes me happy. I did not ask for gifts or a rolls royce for heavens sake, giggles  now on to another topic

[DowntonAbbey]

Oh true, well great point.

[DowntonAbbey]

I am a very old fashioned woman when it comes to courting and yes that is what I want.  I am not a feminist...........sorry.  I should be in 1940.

[chrystaltree]

I'm beginning to feel very very sorry for that man....

[JaneMarple]

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@chrystaltree wrote:

I'm beginning to feel very very sorry for that man....

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[Tyak]

Is the OP the old rainbows and roses or whatever her name was?  

[AKgirl2]

This isn't your first rodeo, so please listen to your inner voice, pay attention to that gut feeling and CHANGE your locks!

[Kachina624]

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@HappyDaze wrote:

This situation sounds similar to my husband's aunt and it turns out those phone calls to his "mother" was actully to his wife. And he would only visit on certain days, just like you mentioned and said he lived with his mom but never brought her to his house or introduced her to his mother -he only came to her house- and they rarely ever went out anywhere in public, usually he only went over to her house. Not to be rude but have you thought that perhaps he has another girlfriend and is playing you?

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My first thought...MARRIED MAN.  Would you have to hide to talk to your mother on the Phone?  Time to move on.

[Kachina624]

So this man, who you really don't know much about, has you key and could have had a copy made and that doesn't alarm You?  Don't ever give your key to any man until after you have married him.  Now run, don't walk, and get your locks rekeyed.

[DowntonAbbey]

I know what I want and I think it is only fair as a couple talks about dating what they need and desire to be happy.  If he can't measure up to texting me good morning like he did when he first met me then I don't want it.  It is my life and its my rules......I am fair and very loving and giving.  It is not too much to ask for me. For you or others maybe but it is my life and I am going to live it to what makes me happy. I am well aware of what men do for my girlfriends and I know what I want.......otherwise I will happily be alone.