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[esmerelda]

On 5/3/2014 Jules5280 said:

I think they should have taken Joan on the cruise to Alaska, then dropped her boney butt off on an iceberg. Since her heart seems to be an ice cube she would feel right at home, and Es could go with her.

Give it a rest already.

[gazelle77]

On 5/3/2014 Jules5280 said:

I think they should have taken Joan on the cruise to Alaska, then dropped her boney butt off on an iceberg. Since her heart seems to be an ice cube she would feel right at home, and Es could go with her.

Hey Jules...that was pretty good! ITA!

[JaneMarple]

On 5/3/2014 esmerelda said: Have to say the indignant, self-righteous foot stamping is humorous. Nobody said anyone will "just get past it" or "get over it." But those women won't dwell...note I said dwell, not think..on their experiences forever like many here do and will. They have lives to live. Is there a trauma ranking, some worse than others? If so, please post it here. I'd like to see it. How they are survived, lived with, has everything to do with the individual.

How do you know this?

[JustJules]

On 5/3/2014 esmerelda said: Have to say the indignant, self-righteous foot stamping is humorous. Nobody said anyone will "just get past it" or "get over it." But those women won't dwell...note I said dwell, not think..on their experiences forever like many here do and will. They have lives to live. Is there a trauma ranking, some worse than others? If so, please post it here. I'd like to see it. How they are survived, lived with, has everything to do with the individual.

Ummm....actually you did... your words were "They'll get past it in time." So now you are just splitting hairs. How do you know what they will or won't dwell on? Have you ever been in that situation? Of course they have lives to live, and they are clearly survivors, but that doesn't mean they won't dwell on 10 years of their lives lost, or that it will cause them more trauma later on in their lives. Just because they were saved, doesn't erase everything that happened to them. I think you are heartless. How about you post some of your traumatic life events so we can mock them?... oh wait, I wouldn't do that because I have a heart.

[JustJules]

On 5/3/2014 gazelle77 said:

On 5/3/2014 Jules5280 said:

I think they should have taken Joan on the cruise to Alaska, then dropped her boney butt off on an iceberg. Since her heart seems to be an ice cube she would feel right at home, and Es could go with her.

Hey Jules...that was pretty good! ITA!

Can't believe we actually agreed on something.

[foundinlv]

On 5/3/2014 Jules5280 said:

On 5/3/2014 esmerelda said: Have to say the indignant, self-righteous foot stamping is humorous. Nobody said anyone will "just get past it" or "get over it." But those women won't dwell...note I said dwell, not think..on their experiences forever like many here do and will. They have lives to live. Is there a trauma ranking, some worse than others? If so, please post it here. I'd like to see it. How they are survived, lived with, has everything to do with the individual.

Ummm....actually you did... your words were "They'll get past it in time." So now you are just splitting hairs. How do you know what they will or won't dwell on? Have you ever been in that situation? Of course they have lives to live, and they are clearly survivors, but that doesn't mean they won't dwell on 10 years of their lives lost, or that it will cause them more trauma later on in their lives. Just because they were saved, doesn't erase everything that happened to them. I think you are heartless. How about you post some of your traumatic life events so we can mock them?... oh wait, I wouldn't do that because I have a heart.

Jules....perfectly stated.

[NoelSeven]

On 5/3/2014 esmerelda said: Have to say the indignant, self-righteous foot stamping is humorous. Nobody said anyone will "just get past it" or "get over it." But those women won't dwell...note I said dwell, not think..on their experiences forever like many here do and will. They have lives to live. Is there a trauma ranking, some worse than others? If so, please post it here. I'd like to see it. How they are survived, lived with, has everything to do with the individual.

You most certainly did say "they'll get past it." It's post #38, and here for the second time is your post:

esmerelda05/03/2014 at 2:04 PM13304 PostsRegistered 10/6/2004

Is that time in the basement going to define those women for the rest of their lives? They'll get past it in time. The rest of you should too.

Have you called a loved one today?

Think about it.

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[JustJules]

Noel, isn't it sad when you have to point out to some people their own "dumbness"? As if it isn't so obvious already.

[NoelSeven]

On 5/3/2014 Jules5280 said:

Noel, isn't it sad when you have to point out to some people their own "dumbness"? As if it isn't so obvious already.

And to think I'd already pointed it out before, shortly after she wrote it.

[JaneMarple]

On 5/3/2014 NoelSeven said:

On 5/3/2014 Jules5280 said:

Noel, isn't it sad when you have to point out to some people their own "dumbness"? As if it isn't so obvious already.

And to think I'd already pointed it out before, shortly after she wrote it.

She deliberately ignores you or anyone else who points facts out to her and then turns around and asks for proof which is not read after making the request.