Mothers Day Is Not Happy For Everyone💝

SandySparkles · ‎06-13-2010

~~~All we need is LOVE💖

AngelPuppy1 · ‎03-13-2010

This is truly lovely and thank you for posting this!

"A day without sunshine is like, you know, night." - Steve Martin

Group 5 minus 1 · ‎03-11-2010

I was just thinking about this. There are women that made choices about their babies and I know that they think about them on this day.

jlkz · ‎12-02-2013

@SandySparkles

So nice to see you and your post again !!!

Short story: Growing up my parents did the best they could but their attention ( thank Heaven ! ) was directed at my younger twin sisters. I excelled at school because that was where my support was...ironic because there I was Italian in an all-Irish school at a time when small town ethnicity was rampant !

Anyway last Winter when my best friend from college was visiting in FL, as she and I were reminiscing about growing up, she happened to say " I never understood why your parents were so cold to you. "

I never gave it a thought until then but she was right. Knowing nothing else, I thought it was normal.

Last summer I lost a close nun friend who had read different documents I wrote and submitted to my college for various projects. She knew more about me than anyone besides my favorite aunt...

When I said I really never understood families when I was in college and got to know how my friends lived, she totally understood. Grace prevented me from becoming a bitter person.

Mothers come in all sizes, shapes, relationships by blood or friendship. I am thankful to have had a precious few in my life.

My niece's email this AM attests to my being like a Mother to her.

We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.
Sir Winston Churchill

Carolina925 · ‎03-09-2010

I'm not a mother due to health issues when I was just into my 20s. It's something I always wanted to be, even ahead of wanting to be a fairy princess! It's difficult for me but I try to remember that everything has a reason and I believe my story was written way before I came along. I think the most difficult thing would be to lose a child, so I try to think of things that would be worse than never having one at all. Wishing a very happy day to all the mothers.

KittySoftPaws · ‎07-21-2020

@jlkz What a beautiful post. God Bless

"Have a heart that never hardens, and a temper that never tires, and a touch that never hurts." Charles Dickens

Jacie · ‎01-09-2011

I would give just about anything to have my Mother here for just one more hour. She is missed.

"Cats are poetry in motion. Dogs are gibberish in neutral." -Garfield

udc · ‎03-14-2019

Thank you so much for your post. My mother is passed and my only daughter just passed on April 2nd at 48 years old. It is a sad day for me but your post helps others understand that it is not happy for everyone. Thank you for helping make other understand.

twinsister · ‎03-12-2010

@udc wrote:
Thank you so much for your post. My mother is passed and my only daughter just passed on April 2nd at 48 years old. It is a sad day for me but your post helps others understand that it is not happy for everyone. Thank you for helping make other understand.

@udc - So very sorry for your recent loss of your daughter. May happy memories of your mom and daughter comfort you today.

twinsister · ‎03-12-2010

@SandySparkles - thank you for this beautiful, touching post. So true it is not a happy day for everyone.

Definitely a sad day for me. I lost my mom on Mother's Day 1977. It's been a lifetime without her and no matter how much time passes, it doesn't get easier.