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[itiswhatitis]

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@Irshgrl31201 wrote:

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@SydneyH wrote:

Mary's mother is a good friend of my mother's..........even if half of what's being reported is true, there are undoubtedly things Mary doesn't want to come to light for whatever reason.  Give him the money so everyone can move on would be my advice to anyone with similar resources in that situation.

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I think he will receive some sort of settlement but she would be crazy to give him the type of money he is asking. Why should she have to support his children and his parents? lol! He needs to find a way to support his family because she isn't responsible for them. 

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I agree.  What sort of living did he have before he married Mary?  He had a wife and kids, I'm sure he had to work....he needs to go back to doing whatever that was.

[itiswhatitis]

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@Shorty2U wrote:

I am glad money is last on my list of important things in life. I guess people who have lots of money and are famous need to be careful who they let in their life. Very sad.

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@Shorty2U, that would be just about "anyone" if you're rich.  

[itiswhatitis]

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@chrystaltree wrote:

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@JaneMarple wrote:

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@chrystaltree wrote:

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 

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I take it that you've never been divorced @chrystaltree? Yes she's hurt and angry which is normal and acceptable. Regardless of how many divorces there are and whether they are  unusual or not, this woman 's marriage is over and it's painful. Have some empathy towards her or anyone else who's marriage is over!

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       So, you didn't bother reading what I wrote?   Her feelings aren't the issue, it's the unseemly way she constantly whines and complains and tells the same old stuff over and over and over again......to the public.   It's not news anymore and no really cares.  Before you know it she'll be printing her sob story on the boxes of those pies she sells at Walmart...lol  

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@chrystaltree her whinning is because she is emotional.  Do people whine when they're happy?  Maybe, I don't know.  When you have complaints that tends to mean "whinning" will be involved.  Her first marriage ending in divorce (sure it's gotta hurt her).

[Irshgrl31201]

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@itiswhatitis wrote:

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@Irshgrl31201 wrote:

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@SydneyH wrote:

Mary's mother is a good friend of my mother's..........even if half of what's being reported is true, there are undoubtedly things Mary doesn't want to come to light for whatever reason.  Give him the money so everyone can move on would be my advice to anyone with similar resources in that situation.

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I think he will receive some sort of settlement but she would be crazy to give him the type of money he is asking. Why should she have to support his children and his parents? lol! He needs to find a way to support his family because she isn't responsible for them. 

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I agree.  What sort of living did he have before he married Mary?  He had a wife and kids, I'm sure he had to work....he needs to go back to doing whatever that was.

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I agree and I can not find out exactly what he did before Mary. I read that Queen Latifa introduced them and all I can find is that he was a music producer and manager but I can't find any specifics. 

[Sweet_Serenity]

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@JaneMarple wrote:

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@chrystaltree wrote:

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 

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I take it that you've never been divorced @chrystaltree? Yes she's hurt and angry which is normal and acceptable. Regardless of how many divorces there are and whether they are  unusual or not, this woman 's marriage is over and it's painful. Have some empathy towards her or anyone else who's marriage is over!

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Example of staying with him long after the relationship between them obviously disolved. Twin Sister is in the exact situration. Her estranged husband showed his true colors years ago. She continued investing time money into successful business. Now it's sheer HELL assets so on on it goes. Five years ago said to her, How much money is worth your sanity? Love her very much however! She chose stay to long. Personally peace of mind isn't negotiable. Reminds me of ex fiancee when we first started dating friends commented he seems uptight, passed it off as nothing until started seeing obvious signs of control issues. My point more often there are signs either person ignores or thinks that they can change them. My Sister finally admitted to this very thing shared intimate details of behavior unacceptable. My sincere hope is anyone reading this walk away sooner than later.

[Maudelyn]

This wasn't a flash in the pan relationship. Her grievences about him don't sound any different from any other long term married relationship.  After this amoung of time, it's going to be about the money and she's loaded.  Her ex has a lawyer who would be doing his client a disservice if he didn't aim for everything and anything he can get. 

He's get something in the middle.

She resents it, but that's what happens in a marriage- there are financial impacts to both parties. She should accept it and move on.

[software]

I've always admired her talent & career.   I also admire that she's never allowed herself to become a victim or to wallow in a bad circumstance.    I don't see her as "whining".  I hope everything will work out for her & wish her continued success.

And back in the day "Hollywood" was not allowed to "air their dirty laundry" because of their contract.    Remember Rock Hudson?   He was forced to always been seen in public with a woman.

@Mz iMac

[faeriemoon]

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@Tinkrbl44 wrote:

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@faeriemoon wrote:

I don't understand why "Hollywood" ever gets married in the first place.

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@faeriemoon

I wouldn't call her "Hollywood".

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@Tinkrbl44

Neither would I.  I just used the term that someone used before me. (See post #2.)

[itiswhatitis]

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@SydneyH wrote:

Mary's mother is a good friend of my mother's..........even if half of what's being reported is true, there are undoubtedly things Mary doesn't want to come to light for whatever reason.  Give him the money so everyone can move on would be my advice to anyone with similar resources in that situation.

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@SydneyH, why don't you get the scoop and come back and let us know what we don't already know via the media?  

[itiswhatitis]

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@Sweet_Serenity wrote:

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@JaneMarple wrote:

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@chrystaltree wrote:

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 

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I take it that you've never been divorced @chrystaltree? Yes she's hurt and angry which is normal and acceptable. Regardless of how many divorces there are and whether they are  unusual or not, this woman 's marriage is over and it's painful. Have some empathy towards her or anyone else who's marriage is over!

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Example of staying with him long after the relationship between them obviously disolved. Twin Sister is in the exact situration. Her estranged husband showed his true colors years ago. She continued investing time money into successful business. Now it's sheer HELL assets so on on it goes. Five years ago said to her, How much money is worth your sanity? Love her very much however! She chose stay to long. Personally peace of mind isn't negotiable. Reminds me of ex fiancee when we first started dating friends commented he seems uptight, passed it off as nothing until started seeing obvious signs of control issues. My point more often there are signs either person ignores or thinks that they can change them. My Sister finally admitted to this very thing shared intimate details of behavior unacceptable. My sincere hope is anyone reading this walk away sooner than later.

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@Sweet_Serenity, some people prefer to work on their marriage.  Mary stayed as long as she needed.  Who are we to decide when someone should throw in the towel?  Not me.  Certainly not you.