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Re: 👀 Mary J Blige Shares The Real Deal About Her Divorce 👀


@Maudelyn wrote:

@itiswhatitis wrote:

@Maudelyn wrote:

This wasn't a flash in the pan relationship. Her grievences about him don't sound any different from any other long term married relationship.  After this amoung of time, it's going to be about the money and she's loaded.  Her ex has a lawyer who would be doing his client a disservice if he didn't aim for everything and anything he can get. 

He's get something in the middle.

She resents it, but that's what happens in a marriage- there are financial impacts to both parties. She should accept it and move on.


@Maudelyn, what should she accept and move on from?


That she's going to have to pay him off to make him go away. It's a hard pill to swallow.


@Maudelyn, yes she will have to give him something I'm sure.  It won't be what he's asking for though.  I think this will be settled in the best interest of everyone.  He wasn't with her during the prime years of her career.  He's a late comer and should only be compensated based on that.  Methinks it doesn't equal $120,000 a month (which is what he's asking for).

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Re: 👀 Mary J Blige Shares The Real Deal About Her Divorce 👀


@JaneMarple wrote:

@Sweet_Serenity wrote:

@itiswhatitis wrote:

@Sweet_Serenity wrote:

@JaneMarple wrote:

@chrystaltree wrote:

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 


I take it that you've never been divorced @chrystaltree? Yes she's hurt and angry which is normal and acceptable. Regardless of how many divorces there are and whether they are  unusual or not, this woman 's marriage is over and it's painful. Have some empathy towards her or anyone else who's marriage is over!


Example of staying with him long after the relationship between them obviously disolved. Twin Sister is in the exact situration. Her estranged husband showed his true colors years ago. She continued investing time money into successful business. Now it's sheer HELL assets so on on it goes. Five years ago said to her, How much money is worth your sanity? Love her very much however! She chose stay to long. Personally peace of mind isn't negotiable. Reminds me of ex fiancee when we first started dating friends commented he seems uptight, passed it off as nothing until started seeing obvious signs of control issues. My point more often there are signs either person ignores or thinks that they can change them. My Sister finally admitted to this very thing shared intimate details of behavior unacceptable. My sincere hope is anyone reading this walk away sooner than later.

@Sweet_Serenity, some people prefer to work on their marriage.  Mary stayed as long as she needed.  Who are we to decide when someone should throw in the towel?  Not me.  Certainly not you.


Then she might have considered keeping her business private.
Why? @Sweet_Serenity Is she any different from any other divorced woman or famouse one? So many women on these boards live for the gossip of every "Housewife" from coast to cast so please tell me why MJB should be treated differntly?

 


I think I know why..........

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Re: 👀 Mary J Blige Shares The Real Deal About Her Divorce 👀


@JaneMarple wrote:

@Sweet_Serenity wrote:

@itiswhatitis wrote:

@Sweet_Serenity wrote:

@JaneMarple wrote:

@chrystaltree wrote:

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 


I take it that you've never been divorced @chrystaltree? Yes she's hurt and angry which is normal and acceptable. Regardless of how many divorces there are and whether they are  unusual or not, this woman 's marriage is over and it's painful. Have some empathy towards her or anyone else who's marriage is over!


Example of staying with him long after the relationship between them obviously disolved. Twin Sister is in the exact situration. Her estranged husband showed his true colors years ago. She continued investing time money into successful business. Now it's sheer HELL assets so on on it goes. Five years ago said to her, How much money is worth your sanity? Love her very much however! She chose stay to long. Personally peace of mind isn't negotiable. Reminds me of ex fiancee when we first started dating friends commented he seems uptight, passed it off as nothing until started seeing obvious signs of control issues. My point more often there are signs either person ignores or thinks that they can change them. My Sister finally admitted to this very thing shared intimate details of behavior unacceptable. My sincere hope is anyone reading this walk away sooner than later.

@Sweet_Serenity, some people prefer to work on their marriage.  Mary stayed as long as she needed.  Who are we to decide when someone should throw in the towel?  Not me.  Certainly not you.


Then she might have considered keeping her business private.
Why? @Sweet_Serenity Is she any different from any other divorced woman or famouse one? So many women on these boards live for the gossip of every "Housewife" from coast to cast so please tell me why MJB should be treated differntly?

 


Because MJB put it out there. Franky! Could care less about Her marriage and music. On that note excuse me 85 sunny here and time to enjoy swimming.🙋
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Re: 👀 Mary J Blige Shares The Real Deal About Her Divorce 👀


@Sweet_Serenity wrote:

@JaneMarple wrote:

@Sweet_Serenity wrote:

@itiswhatitis wrote:

@Sweet_Serenity wrote:

@JaneMarple wrote:

@chrystaltree wrote:

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 


I take it that you've never been divorced @chrystaltree? Yes she's hurt and angry which is normal and acceptable. Regardless of how many divorces there are and whether they are  unusual or not, this woman 's marriage is over and it's painful. Have some empathy towards her or anyone else who's marriage is over!


Example of staying with him long after the relationship between them obviously disolved. Twin Sister is in the exact situration. Her estranged husband showed his true colors years ago. She continued investing time money into successful business. Now it's sheer HELL assets so on on it goes. Five years ago said to her, How much money is worth your sanity? Love her very much however! She chose stay to long. Personally peace of mind isn't negotiable. Reminds me of ex fiancee when we first started dating friends commented he seems uptight, passed it off as nothing until started seeing obvious signs of control issues. My point more often there are signs either person ignores or thinks that they can change them. My Sister finally admitted to this very thing shared intimate details of behavior unacceptable. My sincere hope is anyone reading this walk away sooner than later.

@Sweet_Serenity, some people prefer to work on their marriage.  Mary stayed as long as she needed.  Who are we to decide when someone should throw in the towel?  Not me.  Certainly not you.


Then she might have considered keeping her business private.
Why? @Sweet_Serenity Is she any different from any other divorced woman or famouse one? So many women on these boards live for the gossip of every "Housewife" from coast to cast so please tell me why MJB should be treated differntly?

 


Because MJB put it out there. Franky! Could care less about Her marriage and music. On that note excuse me 85 sunny here and time to enjoy swimming.🙋

But yet you took the time out from your sunny day to post about someone you don't care about!

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Re: 👀 Mary J Blige Shares The Real Deal About Her Divorce 👀

When her divorce became public I went to see her at a concert.At the beginning she said that she was going through a painful time, but she was strong and she would come out of it with her head high.She was not whiny at all.On the contrary she was a huge example of courage.

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Re: 👀 Mary J Blige Shares The Real Deal About Her Divorce 👀

The gall of this guy to ask for support of his grown children...by another woman and care for his parents! That right there says she made the right decision to divorce his booty!!

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