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Re: 👀 Mary J Blige Shares The Real Deal About Her Divorce 👀


@Irshgrl31201 wrote:

@Lucky Charm is it No More Drama? 

 

I LOVE Mary J Blige. I was just listening the Ricky Smiley show this morning and they were talking about what her husband was asking for and they were NOT kind to him at all. They were saying he was less than a man for asking this of her when she has already made his life much better financially than he was. They were saying he had an attitude of entitlement. His is requesting that she pay his child support and for his parents care as well. 

 

Many people will say well if roles were reversed, no one would make a peep and think she deserved the money. I disagree. First off, his kids and parents are not her responsibility. Secondly it isn't like he stayed home taking care of the kids so she could start her career. He already had his kids and he greatly benefited from dating and marrying her. Her was her manager and she was already very popular when they married. It wasn't like he was the key to her success. He is now complaining that he cannot find a job because he is being blacklisted because more people are on her side.

 

I don't think he will receive nothing financially but what he is asking for is absolutely ridiculous and I hope the judge makes that clear. 


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First off, his kids and parents are not her responsibility. Secondly it isn't like he stayed home taking care of the kids so she could start her career. He already had his kids and he greatly benefited from dating and marrying her. Her was her manager and she was already very popular when they married. It wasn't like he was the key to her success. He is now complaining that he cannot find a job because he is being blacklisted because more people are on her side.

 

I don't think he will receive nothing financially but what he is asking for is absolutely ridiculous and I hope the judge makes that clear. "

 

^^^^^This.

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Re: 👀 Mary J Blige Shares The Real Deal About Her Divorce 👀

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 

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I am glad money is last on my list of important things in life. I guess people who have lots of money and are famous need to be careful who they let in their life. Very sad.

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@chrystaltree wrote:

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 


I take it that you've never been divorced @chrystaltree? Yes she's hurt and angry which is normal and acceptable. Regardless of how many divorces there are and whether they are  unusual or not, this woman 's marriage is over and it's painful. Have some empathy towards her or anyone else who's marriage is over!

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@JaneMarple wrote:

@chrystaltree wrote:

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 


I take it that you've never been divorced @chrystaltree? Yes she's hurt and angry which is normal and acceptable. Regardless of how many divorces there are and whether they are  unusual or not, this woman 's marriage is over and it's painful. Have some empathy towards her or anyone else who's marriage is over!


 

       So, you didn't bother reading what I wrote?   Her feelings aren't the issue, it's the unseemly way she constantly whines and complains and tells the same old stuff over and over and over again......to the public.   It's not news anymore and no really cares.  Before you know it she'll be printing her sob story on the boxes of those pies she sells at Walmart...lol  

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@chrystaltree wrote:

@JaneMarple wrote:

@chrystaltree wrote:

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 


I take it that you've never been divorced @chrystaltree? Yes she's hurt and angry which is normal and acceptable. Regardless of how many divorces there are and whether they are  unusual or not, this woman 's marriage is over and it's painful. Have some empathy towards her or anyone else who's marriage is over!


 

       So, you didn't bother reading what I wrote?   Her feelings aren't the issue, it's the unseemly way she constantly whines and complains and tells the same old stuff over and over and over again......to the public.   It's not news anymore and no really cares.  Before you know it she'll be printing her sob story on the boxes of those pies she sells at Walmart...lol  


OOPS!!!!! You missed @chrystaltree! Patti Labelle sells the pies at Walmart! Not Mary J Blige!!!!!!!!!!!! 

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@JaneMarple wrote:

@chrystaltree wrote:

@JaneMarple wrote:

@chrystaltree wrote:

She's hurt and angry but that type foolishness isn't going to make her feel better or recover faster.  The public doesn't care about her marrriage or her divorce.  There's nothing unusual about divorce in this day and age and no one is going to waste any pity on her.  If she needs to talk and unburden herself, she should do it with a therapist.  Someday she'll look back at the constant whining and wahhh wahhh wahhh she's been doing over her divorce and she'll be mortified. 


I take it that you've never been divorced @chrystaltree? Yes she's hurt and angry which is normal and acceptable. Regardless of how many divorces there are and whether they are  unusual or not, this woman 's marriage is over and it's painful. Have some empathy towards her or anyone else who's marriage is over!


 

       So, you didn't bother reading what I wrote?   Her feelings aren't the issue, it's the unseemly way she constantly whines and complains and tells the same old stuff over and over and over again......to the public.   It's not news anymore and no really cares.  Before you know it she'll be printing her sob story on the boxes of those pies she sells at Walmart...lol  


OOPS!!!!! Patti Labelle sells the pies at Walmart! Not Mary J Blige!!!!!!!!!!!! @chrystaltree


 

       Ooops indeed...lol   Now I know why my sister gave me a blank stare when I asked her to pick me up one onf Mary J's pies when she comes for Easter....lol   OMG....you think she would have told me...lol

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@faeriemoon wrote:

I don't understand why "Hollywood" ever gets married in the first place.


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I wouldn't call her "Hollywood".

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Mary's mother is a good friend of my mother's..........even if half of what's being reported is true, there are undoubtedly things Mary doesn't want to come to light for whatever reason.  Give him the money so everyone can move on would be my advice to anyone with similar resources in that situation.

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@SydneyH wrote:

Mary's mother is a good friend of my mother's..........even if half of what's being reported is true, there are undoubtedly things Mary doesn't want to come to light for whatever reason.  Give him the money so everyone can move on would be my advice to anyone with similar resources in that situation.


I think he will receive some sort of settlement but she would be crazy to give him the type of money he is asking. Why should she have to support his children and his parents? lol! He needs to find a way to support his family because she isn't responsible for them. 

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