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[jacnit]

for those of you who have successfully found the key to wedded bliss...can you help me i was married for 24 yrs then divorced...no drama really, just both worked a lot, very involved with our kids too..sports, school, etc..for twelve years of the marriage we worked different shifts so the kids never had to be left w/sitters...anyway, got them raised, in college and we looked at each other like "who the heck are you?"...looking back we should have tried a little harder to work thru it but fast forward I'm remarried for 6 years now. I absolutely love my husband but we suddenly are bickering....i'm 55 and he's 57...we are really very happy but we have both noticed in the last few months that we are bickering to the point of sometimes arguing and usually over the most silly stuff. I lost my mom last year so i need a mom....i'm having a very bad day...please no attacking...if you've navigated thru this problem can you enlighten me??? i'd blame it on menopause but i've been there done that so i can't use that excuse