@J Town Girl Agreed re talking about other women.
@Calcgirl I'm very happy that this all worked out. I mentioned in my previous response that things are not always what they seem, and I do believe that happened here, and in a very big way. Although not the way I meant it when I typed it, thankfully!
I did want to ask if you thought the posts they read here would negatively impact their marriage? I think it's gotta be tough to get married with a clean slate when you've just read that your future inlaws see you as a user.
Hopefully they were able to work that out. Best of luck to them!
Whatever gets you through the night; it's alright, it's alright. It's your money or your life; it's alright, it's alright---John Lennon