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jubilant · ‎06-10-2010

@AngusandBuddhasMom wrote:
@jubilant wrote:

Every person on earth makes "judgements" between right and wrong in order to make decisions about how to live their lives. The real reason people say some of us our judgemental is because they disagree with our moral judgements....Of course they are not making any kind of judgement claiming we are!
You are making a judgment and assuming. I have no problem with you making a moral judgment. What I find issue with is when it is made because the person can't keep their pov to themselves and just has to say something. No thought as to what the words may do to the intended target. So how is that right? You have made your moral point and feel happy because you can go about your merry way. But you have cast judgment against your target and left them feeling hurt . That is not being a caring person that is just getting your POV out and not caring what it does to others. And wanting others to follow what you feel is right again not caring how they feel.

********** We all make moral judgements every day of our lives in one way or another. My target, caravaggio???? Right there is a judgement call on your part. I never look at people as targets. I try to love all people whether they agree with me or not. I give my opinion and once in a while I include where I get that opinion and/or belief from but I don't try to force it on others. If the moderators think I have gone too far they let me know. POOF! I try hard to respect their decision but I am not perfect by any means. If my beliefs hurt people...I don't mean them to. I have mentioned before that my own children cohabited before marriage. That was a their decision. They knew how I felt but they also knew that I loved them and welcomed them with open arms with love as I would anyone....including you or anyone else here that thinks I feel superior. The truth is, I know I am not superior....my beliefs are just different from yours.

Say Nay · ‎03-12-2010

@Newgate wrote:

What do you think?

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SaRina · ‎04-17-2015

@jubilant wrote:
@AngusandBuddhasMom wrote:
@jubilant wrote:

Every person on earth makes "judgements" between right and wrong in order to make decisions about how to live their lives. The real reason people say some of us our judgemental is because they disagree with our moral judgements....Of course they are not making any kind of judgement claiming we are!
You are making a judgment and assuming. I have no problem with you making a moral judgment. What I find issue with is when it is made because the person can't keep their pov to themselves and just has to say something. No thought as to what the words may do to the intended target. So how is that right? You have made your moral point and feel happy because you can go about your merry way. But you have cast judgment against your target and left them feeling hurt . That is not being a caring person that is just getting your POV out and not caring what it does to others. And wanting others to follow what you feel is right again not caring how they feel.
********** We all make moral judgements every day of our lives in one way or another. My target, caravaggio???? Right there is a judgement call on your part. I never look at people as targets. I try to love all people whether they agree with me or not. I give my opinion and once in a while I include where I get that opinion and/or belief from but I don't try to force it on others. If the moderators think I have gone too far they let me know. POOF! I try hard to respect their decision but I am not perfect by any means. If my beliefs hurt people...I don't mean them to. I have mentioned before that my own children cohabited before marriage. That was a their decision. They knew how I felt but they also knew that I loved them and welcomed them with open arms with love as I would anyone....including you or anyone else here that thinks I feel superior. The truth is, I know I am not superior....my beliefs are just different from yours.

Yes, I've noticed this on several occasions. Guess you still don't understand what the Standards are here. :-)

AngusandBuddhasMom · ‎03-10-2010

@jubilant wrote:
@AngusandBuddhasMom wrote:
@jubilant wrote:

Every person on earth makes "judgements" between right and wrong in order to make decisions about how to live their lives. The real reason people say some of us our judgemental is because they disagree with our moral judgements....Of course they are not making any kind of judgement claiming we are!
You are making a judgment and assuming. I have no problem with you making a moral judgment. What I find issue with is when it is made because the person can't keep their pov to themselves and just has to say something. No thought as to what the words may do to the intended target. So how is that right? You have made your moral point and feel happy because you can go about your merry way. But you have cast judgment against your target and left them feeling hurt . That is not being a caring person that is just getting your POV out and not caring what it does to others. And wanting others to follow what you feel is right again not caring how they feel.
********** We all make moral judgements every day of our lives in one way or another. My target, caravaggio???? Right there is a judgement call on your part. I never look at people as targets. I try to love all people whether they agree with me or not. I give my opinion and once in a while I include where I get that opinion and/or belief from but I don't try to force it on others. If the moderators think I have gone too far they let me know. POOF! I try hard to respect their decision but I am not perfect by any means. If my beliefs hurt people...I don't mean them to. I have mentioned before that my own children cohabited before marriage. That was a their decision. They knew how I felt but they also knew that I loved them and welcomed them with open arms with love as I would anyone....including you or anyone else here that thinks I feel superior. The truth is, I know I am not superior....my beliefs are just different from yours.

"because the person can't keep their pov to themselves and just has to say something. No thought as to what the words may do to the intended target.

Um OK I said "the person" unless you are that person that is not you jubliant so stop. I didn't say you. I was making an example. I think you are a nice person and would not base my pov on a personal nature. I too have been poofed so I am trying to make this a generalization and not make it personal.