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[Winkk]

Well, this thread was interesting reading.

[CatsyCline]

i had a boyfriend, one time he said what is up with all this lip action? i enjpyed kissing and he did not,

he didn't like kissing and making out :-( i loved kissing him, we lived together then it turned out we were not physically matched at all. :-( after a while the true colors show if you know what i mean.

[anisa]

My husband always held my hand or had his arm around my shoulder or waist when we were out in public. He was a big hugger and kisser. He's been gone 3 1/2 years now and I miss him and that closeness.

[missy1]

What does your boyfriend do with all his free time..... working (part time) and the mom of his 7 year old son, having him for the summer? Has this younger man told you that you are his girlfriend? Are you dating exclusivlely?

[CLHS68]

He is only her boyfriend in her mind. They are not dating since he does not take her anywhere. They just sit at his home. She is just desperate to have a man in her life. What happened to therapy that she needs? She needs to fix herself first.

[gazelle77]

Wow! Personal question rosy.... I think you better make the first move...become a cougar!

[Lucky Charm]

I couldn't even answer that question I don't think. I've been married so long that everything just comes naturally (or normally).

Being in a dating situation now, I cannot even imagine hugging or kissing or wanting to unless I was totally turned on by the guy. And that seems so far fetched.....dating, ugh.

When I was young and dating, I wasn't wild about kissing to be honest. I had to really really know the guy and like the guy and there could be no cigarettes or liquor or nasty looking teeth.

Ugh, kissing is so personal!

[CatsyCline]

you better know sooner rather than later if he's the huggy squeezy type. men don't change - what you see now is what you get. better to not wait in an ivory tower wearing a chastity belt.

[Shorty2U]

I show affection more in public than my husband and that's just because hes shy/quiet. I don't hassle him about it, I know he loves me as much as I love him. My friends and old neighbors hubby is the same way and they've been married 55 YEARS!

[RibbonsRosesRainbows]

Well, relationships have never been easy for me........of course staying home all the time there is not ways to meet people even in church.....they are married are too young or way too old...but no singles except women.......so I hope this relationship is the one for me but only time will tell.....I am ready to be loved the last few years of my life.......it would be very nice. Blessings to all and thank you for your nice posts. I think if a man is INTO a woman she will know it.........but a military man has been reprogramed and they may not feel like a regular man.........who knows............he is probably still feeling things out even though he has talked about us getting married I just listened and did not respond. It is easy to say things but doing it is another.