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01-07-2022 01:21 PM
01-07-2022 01:26 PM
If you promised there would be no tattoos, then no, you should not get another one. If you only said that you don't like tattoos, then it is up to you. You will have to decide if you want your husband to have to look at something he detests in such an obvious place as your wrist.
How would you feel if your husband suddenly went and got his nose pierced or got tattoos on his face or anything that you have difficulty looking at everyday? What about a tongue piercing?
01-07-2022 01:26 PM
It's all a matter of personal opinions. I don't like tattoos and don't like looking at them either. I think it messes up one's beauty. Maybe he thinks that it tarnishes your beauty in some way. Who knows but good luck.
01-07-2022 01:26 PM
"...for better, for worse..." That's what I beleive in so do as you wish.
01-07-2022 01:28 PM
@Mindy D Thank you for this insight. It's always good to hear other points of view.
01-07-2022 01:28 PM
01-07-2022 01:31 PM
I guess I would unbiased, as I don't have a feeling one way or the other about tattoos. Well, except that needles hurt so I don't have any.
That said, I'm wondering what his reasons are for hating them so much. That might be part of the key as to what to do, or not do, next.
I agree that it's your body, your choice. But sometimes, like you said, maybe keeping the peace might override that a bit. If you are doing something with your body that doesn't hurt or in any way negative affect another, then there generally shouldn't be limits.
But if this is causing big problems with the husband that kind of seeps into the choice part. Is it a religious thing for him? Or does he just find them so repugnant that your having them is chipping away at your relationship over all?
So many questions, right?
01-07-2022 01:33 PM - edited 01-07-2022 04:01 PM
I will answer in form of a question: Do you want the tatoo or marriage?
01-07-2022 01:33 PM
I wouldn't risk my marriage for a tattoo. He will have to see it everytime he looks at you if it is on your wrist. It will cause unhappiness and resentment on his part. If you care for him and your life together do not do it.
01-07-2022 01:36 PM
I personally do not like tattoos, and am very happy my husband does not like them and does not have any.
My thoughts are that if you go for a third one after knowing your husband is not happy with the previous two, you are intentionally "poking the bear".
The "my body, my choice" point always stands, but with 47 years of marriage behind me, I go more with "pick your battles".
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