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[sidsmom]

I bet...if you ask to meet his girlfriend, either pop in or scheduled dinner, all communication with you would stop...meaning she doesn't know a thing about you.

Can't have your cake & eat it too

[sidsmom]

Side question....why was living in the same school district important if the kids are grown?

[brii]

If you started dating someone, would you still take his phone calls?

[WenGirl42]

On 2/18/2015 sidsmom said:

Side question....why was living in the same school district important if the kids are grown?

I'm guessing it's because 5 years ago, they weren't.

[qvc chick]

My daughter was in her last yr of high school, so I could not switch towns.

My son was over his house, and he was the one that told me she was there, cooking dinner and about the balloons.

He also booked a hotel room for the two of them (Val day weekend) and used my Hotel account number so they sent me an email telling me of the reservation. When asked why he booked it under my acct #, he said he wanted me to earn the points for the stay.

Weird!!

[brii]

How thoughtful of him to give you the points.

Sounds like he is enjoying having you in the know.

[chickenbutt]

I agree with others that if you seem to be finding yourself having these 'feelings', then the friendship isn't working out and you need to distance yourself - if for no other reason than self-preservation. You don't sound like you can handle the friendship thing with him, especially now that he has a girlfriend, so you can see that it's just not a good idea.

It sounds like you're stewing in it and that's not good for you. You need to take care of YOU. I'm not saying this stuff to be mean. It's just the way it needs to be or you will find yourself deeper and deeper in making yourself think that you want him back, especially to take him away from her.

[Cakers1]

On 2/18/2015 qvc chick said:

My daughter was in her last yr of high school, so I could not switch towns.

My son was over his house, and he was the one that told me she was there, cooking dinner and about the balloons.

He also booked a hotel room for the two of them (Val day weekend) and used my Hotel account number so they sent me an email telling me of the reservation. When asked why he booked it under my acct #, he said he wanted me to earn the points for the stay.

Weird!!

Why does he have your hotel account #?

Sounds like both of you haven't really moved on - he plays games, you pout because he has a new girlfriend.

This is not who will take you to the senior prom. It's a marriage that has ended. I have no problem with keeping communication open; but the rest of this is almost comical.

[Preds]

On 2/18/2015 brii said:

How thoughtful of him to give you the points.

Sounds like he is enjoying having you in the know.

He wants to, and is, continuing his control on you and you are allowing it, qvc. The divorce was just a piece of paper and didn't mean a thing to him except he was a little more free to do what he was already doing and you'd let him.

[betteb]

On 2/18/2015 terrier3 said:

Get your own boyfriend and stop communicating with ex (except about the kids).

ITA