How do you get over an ex-husband?? - Page 2

Puzzle Piece · ‎06-29-2010

On 2/18/2015 ROMARY 1 said:
How do you get over an ex-husband?: . . Just step right over him, and keep on walking..............

Good take.

Seems like the guy wants a haram or to corral the gals and pick and choose which one he wants for the day/night.

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terrier3 · ‎03-10-2010

On 2/18/2015 brii said:
You need to move on from him. Why does he call you? If I was girlfriend, that would upset me - unless the call was related to your children.

Just keep reminding yourself why you divorced him.

Sounds like he STILL likes the companionship of two (or more) women at a time.

deepwaterdotter · ‎03-09-2010

Is there any reason that you have not sought the companionship of a new gentleman?

brii · ‎06-20-2010

It's not your house anymore. I'm not going to lie - it would bother me to have somebody else there.

qvc chick · ‎03-10-2010

I don't know why he still calls me. Guess after all the years together, we still have alot in common.

I would like to meet someone, but don't know where to start.

Guess what is bothering me...is that he has someone, and I don't. If I was in a relationship, I am sure I would not feel this bad.

I go out...travel, have lots of friends, but still don't seem to meet anyone!

SydneyH · ‎03-10-2010

He shouldn't be calling you and you shouldn't be taking his calls either or dining together.

Preds · ‎12-17-2012

You haven't met anyone because you haven't let go yet. Once you stop looking to him for companionship, you can see possibilities in others.

Fate whispers to her, "You cannot withstand the storm." She whispers back, "I am the storm."

hckynut · ‎03-10-2010

Can only speak from a male perspective! Since I am still with my wife, can only tell you what I have seen from my divorced male friends and relatives. Most of them waited little time after the finalization of their divorce and finding new/different female companions. Maybe this could also work for the female side also?

hckynut(john)

Lipstickdiva · ‎03-10-2010

Did he tell you that he bought his new girlfriend balloons and flowers? If he told you, that seems a little juvenile on his part to tell you something like that.

Are you driving past the house that you saw her cooking in your kitchen?

Justina rae · ‎01-02-2015

On 2/18/2015 qvc chick said:
I don't know why he still calls me. Guess after all the years together, we still have alot in common.

I would like to meet someone, but don't know where to start.

Guess what is bothering me...is that he has someone, and I don't. If I was in a relationship, I am sure I would not feel this bad.

I go out...travel, have lots of friends, but still don't seem to meet anyone!

This is definitely true. You have been left out in the cold so to speak. Your ex has you for comfort and a girlfriend for excitement. In a way you are being used but you are allowing yourself to be used and it is this that needs to stop in order for you to move on. It's not an easy thing to do after 27 years but it is important for your own well being to let go.