Thanks again Im still reading all of your info.
To those saying get a dog (See above) We cant have a dog my husband is deathly allergic to dogs. (shots don't work, hes allergic to their saliva). Or believe me Id have a dog! Had dogs my whole life before my husband.
We don't need smoke or carbon monoxide detection, or home was built with those installed electrically but thanks for the suggestion.
We don't need cameras either to monitor as I stay at home now and don't work.
I agree when we are home and awake we wouldn't have it on. My DH has a habit of going in and out feeding the birds etc, or we go in the hot tub, or I sit outside in warm weather. Id be turning it off and on a zillion times. lol.
And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make~ The Beatles