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[Zerbina]

On 7/21/2014 RibbonsRosesRainbows said:

On 7/21/2014 SugarBabyJ said:

On 7/21/2014 Zerbina said:

So I guess I am asking what is your point because you have not made it very clear in what you exactly you disagree with.

I don't agree that the question about a man's relationship with his mother is either fair or accurate.

I don't agree with placing all the "blame" for Rx3's relationship (as recounted by her) solely on her son.

No you were not here when I was injuried with a head injury and my son was unkind and unhelpful so many times........and was angry because his money source was cut off to almost nothing........he treated me as if I was stupid and because his dad or other side of the family did not bring him to ICU or to the hospital to see me {I think he could have grasped it better seeing me on machines} and when I moved here I looked fine but I was far from being able to take care of me let alone him and my former husband just walked away and would not help me with my son..........and I would cry and beg and plead and so would my doctors trying to get it into my sons head I was damaged for awhile..........he was 12.......but immature...........it was a long hard road and my son will have to answer what all he put me through but I have forgiven him.......that is what a mother does.......we love regardless and I have pulled him out financially more than anyone and it has left me broke and I have what I have and that is it..........so no you don't know the story but I can tell you my friends do and my neighbors do and even a few of the police know my story so I owe you nothing.

That is what matters, RRR.

[SugarBabyJ]

An immature 12 year old - so hard to imagine!! I don't know any 12 year old child who is, or should be expected to be, mature/responsible enough to be the sole caregiver for anyone, not even themselves.

[sylviahomeatlast]

On 7/21/2014 RibbonsRosesRainbows said:

It does not matter who believes in our Savior.........but it is my decision if it is a must to be in my life in a relationship.........I don't date atheist or anyone that does not believe in the word I believe in which is the Aramatic New English Testament........we agree about holidays to celebrate and he has traveled to Israel twice......which I would love to go.......as for what my son would say.........I don't know but I do know that he is at odds with me because he is an atheist and so is his wife.....they don't want to associate with Christians but I call myself a Follower of the Savior and Father.........Elohim, Adonai.......{G-d}.........and it does not matter if my son is good to me or not........he is out of my life at this time but I hope one day that will heal. He knows I love him and I know in his own way he loves me.

Thank you cater and others for posting that I deserve a good relationship. I want to have someone while I am still here on earth........I am ready to share myself with someone but not in a hurry......funny he lives down the street........I am old fashioned and I don't think he would introduce me to his mom unless he liked me and had respect for me.........but again, day at a time. There are some women that find someone fast and easy but for me it has always been a long time.........I have been divorced almost 15 years.........that is a long time to be alone and yet I did have that relationship three years ago for nine months but it was a hard one.........I think this will be different but only time will tell.

I thought you were friends with his mother---

[Zerbina]

She is friends with his sister I believe.

[missy1]

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[sylviahomeatlast]

oh...

[missy1]

On 7/21/2014 RibbonsRosesRainbows said:

It does not matter who believes in our Savior.........but it is my decision if it is a must to be in my life in a relationship.........I don't date atheist or anyone that does not believe in the word I believe in which is the Aramatic New English Testament........we agree about holidays to celebrate and he has traveled to Israel twice......which I would love to go.......as for what my son would say.........I don't know but I do know that he is at odds with me because he is an atheist and so is his wife.....they don't want to associate with Christians but I call myself a Follower of the Savior and Father.........Elohim, Adonai.......{G-d}.........and it does not matter if my son is good to me or not........he is out of my life at this time but I hope one day that will heal. He knows I love him and I know in his own way he loves me.

Thank you cater and others for posting that I deserve a good relationship. I want to have someone while I am still here on earth........I am ready to share myself with someone but not in a hurry......funny he lives down the street........I am old fashioned and I don't think he would introduce me to his mom unless he liked me and had respect for me.........but again, day at a time. There are some women that find someone fast and easy but for me it has always been a long time.........I have been divorced almost 15 years.........that is a long time to be alone and yet I did have that relationship three years ago for nine months but it was a hard one.........I think this will be different but only time will tell.

The relationship sounds one-sided and forced. I don't want you in for a big let down.

[PIT-HAG Melissa]

Zerbina, you seem really sweet...

That's all...

[Zerbina]

On 7/21/2014 JustMeMelissa said:

Zerbina, you seem really sweet...

That's all...

Thank you! My sister suffers (and I do mean SUFFERS for it is an ongoing pain that does not go away) a brain injury from a car wreck where a steel rod went through her right eye and into her brain. Even though she survived she lost her right eye. I see on a daily basis how she struggles with life and it just pisses me off to see anyone with a similar injury being mistreated!

[PIT-HAG Melissa]

On 7/21/2014 Zerbina said:

On 7/21/2014 JustMeMelissa said:

Zerbina, you seem really sweet...

That's all...

Thank you! My sister suffers (and I do mean SUFFERS for it is an ongoing pain that does not go away) a brain injury from a car wreck where a steel rod went through her right eye and into her brain. Even though she survived she lost her right eye. I see on a daily basis how she struggles with life and it just pisses me off to see anyone with a similar injury being mistreated!

((( Zerbina)))

I am SO SORRY to read this... My cousin does too....His squad crashed into another on the way to a call...He has never been the same since...