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04-08-2018 08:39 AM - edited 04-08-2018 08:40 AM
04-08-2018 09:24 AM
Nice article.
I have mixed emotions about this.
I love the past, and the things that were a part of it. It's all about history and family and tradition.
But, if people are going to give away or throw away things, making them into something else that will keep that traditional family history close to those that lived it, then I think it is a great solution relative to simply removing those things entirely from one's life.
We have done similar things with wood. Great old wood (oak)from the local high school that I, my father and my grandmother all attended (as well as many cousins) has been saved and will be made into pens for all of us.
It's a great way to carry the past on into the future.
04-08-2018 09:42 AM
My DH is an only child, his Mom was also an only child -- he has a ton of family heirlooms.Add to that he is a hoarder and OMG - I do have things pretty well gotten rid of slowly over the years, but every piece of krap I donate or toss out is a battle.
I also have many things from my family but nothing at all like he has because I have 5 brothers.
I keep trying to tell him he will still have the memories despite we get rid of the object.
04-08-2018 10:06 AM
@151949 wrote:My DH is an only child, his Mom was also an only child -- he has a ton of family heirlooms.Add to that he is a hoarder and OMG - I do have things pretty well gotten rid of slowly over the years, but every piece of krap I donate or toss out is a battle.
I also have many things from my family but nothing at all like he has because I have 5 brothers.
I think my DH is your DH's long lost brother-pack rat to the max!
He becomes outraged if I try to get rid of anything.
04-08-2018 10:08 AM
@maestra wrote:
@151949 wrote:My DH is an only child, his Mom was also an only child -- he has a ton of family heirlooms.Add to that he is a hoarder and OMG - I do have things pretty well gotten rid of slowly over the years, but every piece of krap I donate or toss out is a battle.
I also have many things from my family but nothing at all like he has because I have 5 brothers.
I think my DH is your DH's long lost brother-pack rat to the max!
He becomes outraged if I try to get rid of anything.
It was easier for me before he retired because he travelled for his job. Now he is here all the time it's almost impossible.
04-08-2018 10:12 AM
@151949 I have to make sure that I get to edit/review anything that comes into our home, b/c once DH see's it, it's here forever.
DH is retired, so I have to rely (most of the time) out of sight, out of mind.
We still have his dad's trophy cup for hitting a hole in one at a country club-25 years ago.
I cant wait to get rid of that!
04-08-2018 10:17 AM
@maestra I used to toss stuff when he was travelling and later he'd be looking for it and I'd say "I don't know - it's yours - where did you put it." and he'd fall for it & think he lost it. I got away with a lot back then.
04-08-2018 11:07 AM
I have a few items that my SO had inherited long before I knew him. We did finally gift a large crystal chandalier to his younger brother and I've sold a few items since his death 5 years ago, but I still have a few more pieces. In fact, I just put 5 pieces of stemware into my thrift box. Judging from the dust I washed away, I hadn't touched them for far too long - and I have enough of my own to try to pass on. It's not easy at all.
04-08-2018 11:45 AM
As the only granddaughter, I inherited a lot of family stuff from my mothers family. On Friday, I told my mom that if I’d had a dollar for every time I heard “I want you to have this some day”, I would at least have a fistful of cash instead of a lot of old, worn out stuff I don’t want.
My grandmothers family was very poor, and the things she inherited were worn out by the time she got them, so it’s not like I inherited nice stuff. I just simply have items that belonged directly to my great grandparents. As an adult, I learned the china cabinet has a spiteful story connected to it, which took away any appeal it might have had to me in my younger days.
My daughters have taken the items they want; dishes, glassware, silverware, items my grandmother crocheted or embroidered, etc. I have shared items with my nephew for his home. I sent a box of my grandmothers handmade things to a cousin who was a step grandchild.
On Friday I had a conversation with my mom about the china cabinet, which immediately launched her into repeating that spiteful story I did not want to hear one more time, but as soon as she finished, I told her I was going to burn the cabinet, and let the history of it be in the past, with no visual reminder. Mom was surprised I even still had it, as she knows I’m not tolerant of the quirks and stories about my grandmothers family.
04-08-2018 11:52 AM
@151949 wrote:
@maestra wrote:
@151949 wrote:My DH is an only child, his Mom was also an only child -- he has a ton of family heirlooms.Add to that he is a hoarder and OMG - I do have things pretty well gotten rid of slowly over the years, but every piece of krap I donate or toss out is a battle.
I also have many things from my family but nothing at all like he has because I have 5 brothers.
I think my DH is your DH's long lost brother-pack rat to the max!
He becomes outraged if I try to get rid of anything.
It was easier for me before he retired because he travelled for his job. Now he is here all the time it's almost impossible.
Unfortunately, my dad had to pass away before our family
could clean out the farm house & shop. It was always a
bone of contention with our family when we were growing up...
especially between Mom-Dad.
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