My first husband died over 30 years ago in a car accident. I was home asleep at the time of the accident but heard his voice call my name, I woke up and looked at the time on the bedside clock. Since it was an accident, there was an autopsy and police report. About a month or two after the accident, I received a copy of the autopsy report from the police and saw the time of death...it was the same exact time that I woke up and looked at the clock.
When I told my Mom about this years later, she mentioned that at the time of my Dad's death, she saw a white mist rise from his body. She's convinced it was his spirit.
My second husband died a year and a half ago at home from terminal cancer. He said he didn't want to die and leave me alone. Oddly, I have never felt alone in the house since his death.
One of my in-laws came to visit and she told me she sees dead people, has seen them her entire life (I was unaware of this). She has a sibling that also sees dead people.
She said my dead husband was in the room with us and that she saw him walking around the yard and in the house. She said that he looked much younger, in his 20's (he died at age 69). She said that spirits would often appear to her as a younger version of themselves, as that was how they wanted to present themselves. Although she could see him, she couldn't hear him but he was able to communicate to her via thought. I asked her what he looked like (solid as a person or what) and she said he looked half solid. I was fascinated and started asking her all kinds of questions but she really doesn't like being a conduit for spirits. It scares her and she's afraid that they will 'take over' her. So, we stopped the communication as I could see real fear on her face.
My in-law mentioned that spirits will often communicate via dreams since most people are not conduits to spirits and can't see them. In addition, if you feel a little cold shiver down your spine, your loved one is probably trying to let you know they are there.
It's been over a year since she visited but she said in a recent email that my first and second husbands are both looking out for me, together. Apparently, they found each other on the other side. She wanted to make sure that I knew this so she must have had another communication with my late husband.
At some point, just about every widow has thoughts of wanting to be with their dead husband instead of still alive and alone. My late husband also said it was not my time to die yet, that I had something I needed to do first. Sure wish I knew what that 'something' is, lol!
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