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Have You Ever Wondered What Happened To Your First True Love

For some you may have married them, to others you may wish you had, and to some you may be glad it never lasted.
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No. I don't care.

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Funny you should ask this. When I was 15 I thought I was majorly in love with this guy. I was a sophomore and he was a senior. Baseball and football player, popular guy very cute and was the life of the party. I dated him for 6 months or so and he broke up with me and broke my heart. I would see him later on when I was in my 20's and we would talk and he would flirt with me but by then I had more than moved on. I could tell that he was partying too much, every time I saw him he was drinking pretty heavily.

I found out a while back he got into drugs really bad and married a girl I had went to school with. She was diagnosed with cancer as he was hitting drugs really hard. She was really sick and eventually died. They had 2 kids that he gave up custody to her sister.

One day he was riding in a town near ours called Elicottvile a few years back with a friend after a day of drinking at the bars in that town. He was driving and he flipped the car and killed his friend. He tried to push the friend into the drivers side and claim that the friend was driving. They of course knew from evidence that he was driving and he is now in jail. Wende correctional facility.

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No, not really. I didn't know it when I met him but his fiancee had broken off their engagement right before I met him, saying that she wanted her space & needed time to think about such a big decision. I was a rebound for him. Apparently she saw us together & decided that she DID want to marry him. That was the end of "us."

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I think mine is still batting for the other team, as I suspected long ago. Wink

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I married him but not before I married someone else first. I was not mature enough when I got out of HS to get married and we broke up. I married someone else after nursing school., then 4 years after my first husband died very young we got back together and got married. I was 34 when we got married - much more mature and ready to be married.

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Sure have. I wouldn't say it was true love, but it was my first love. He was a BMOC and definitely not my type, but I sure fell for him. I moved on after a time. Got curious not long ago and googled him, he's a college professor. I never saw that coming!

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He turned out to be a jerk. Good riddance to bad rubbage!
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I know what happened to him.

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On 6/27/2014 Irshgrl31201 said:

Funny you should ask this. When I was 15 I thought I was majorly in love with this guy. I was a sophomore and he was a senior. Baseball and football player, popular guy very cute and was the life of the party. I dated him for 6 months or so and he broke up with me and broke my heart. I would see him later on when I was in my 20's and we would talk and he would flirt with me but by then I had more than moved on. I could tell that he was partying too much, every time I saw him he was drinking pretty heavily.

I found out a while back he got into drugs really bad and married a girl I had went to school with. She was diagnosed with cancer as he was hitting drugs really hard. She was really sick and eventually died. They had 2 kids that he gave up custody to her sister.

One day he was riding in a town near ours called Elicottvile a few years back with a friend after a day of drinking at the bars in that town. He was driving and he flipped the car and killed his friend. He tried to push the friend into the drivers side and claim that the friend was driving. They of course knew from evidence that he was driving and he is now in jail. Wende correctional facility.


Wow, I'm glad you got away from him! You were too smart for him, anyway.

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