For people with children........question....... - Page 13

CANDLEQUEEN · ‎03-09-2010

I would absolutely, positively have children, my 2 plus maybe a third child!!!!! I love love love children, and I enjoyed mine immensely, still do and they are grown, and married and I now have 3 grandchildren that I adore beyond reason!!!!!

AngusandBuddhasMom · ‎03-10-2010

@ANewHue wrote:
@Plaid Pants2 wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
@momtochloe wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
We have one child that we had later in life. She was our blessing that we thought would never be. Now she is our biggest headache. The answer to your question is NO. All our money was spent on her education. She is ungrateful. We missed a lot of things in life because we were spending our time and cash raising her properly and giving her opportunities that we didn't have. At this point we want her out so we can enjoy traveling and getting back to having some fun but she's not taking the hint.

Yikes, ouch . . . . unless she is on drugs or has been arrested this is kind of harsh. With all due respect do you not own some of this?
No it's not harsh I live it everyday. There is no drug use involved that I'm aware of she is a part of the entitled generation, are you aware of them? Oh she is a sweetheart on the outside just a terror to her family. Own what? that we afforded her every opportunity? She doesn't have any debt like others.

I'm sorry that you hate your daughter. That is very sad.

Your posts about your daughter comes across as hateful towards her.

@Plaid Pants2 The only one that used the word hate is YOU.

I think her posts come across as jealousy towards her daughter who apparently from reading this post was given a lot of material things but no love. Apparently there was a price tag on it. How terrible to say you give your dd hints to leave so you can travel? Love to see what your daughter says about your cold attitude towards her.

Plaid Pants2 · ‎03-14-2015

@AngusandBuddhasMom wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
@Plaid Pants2 wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
@momtochloe wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
We have one child that we had later in life. She was our blessing that we thought would never be. Now she is our biggest headache. The answer to your question is NO. All our money was spent on her education. She is ungrateful. We missed a lot of things in life because we were spending our time and cash raising her properly and giving her opportunities that we didn't have. At this point we want her out so we can enjoy traveling and getting back to having some fun but she's not taking the hint.

Yikes, ouch . . . . unless she is on drugs or has been arrested this is kind of harsh. With all due respect do you not own some of this?
No it's not harsh I live it everyday. There is no drug use involved that I'm aware of she is a part of the entitled generation, are you aware of them? Oh she is a sweetheart on the outside just a terror to her family. Own what? that we afforded her every opportunity? She doesn't have any debt like others.

I'm sorry that you hate your daughter. That is very sad.

Your posts about your daughter comes across as hateful towards her.

@Plaid Pants2 The only one that used the word hate is YOU.

I think her posts come across as jealousy towards her daughter who apparently from reading this post was given a lot of material things but no love. Apparently there was a price tag on it. How terrible to say you give your dd hints to leave so you can travel? Love to see what your daughter says about your cold attitude towards her.

Love, especially a parent's love, should NOT come with a price tag, or any strings attached.

Melania · ‎06-12-2013

@AngusandBuddhasMom wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
@Plaid Pants2 wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
@momtochloe wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
We have one child that we had later in life. She was our blessing that we thought would never be. Now she is our biggest headache. The answer to your question is NO. All our money was spent on her education. She is ungrateful. We missed a lot of things in life because we were spending our time and cash raising her properly and giving her opportunities that we didn't have. At this point we want her out so we can enjoy traveling and getting back to having some fun but she's not taking the hint.

Yikes, ouch . . . . unless she is on drugs or has been arrested this is kind of harsh. With all due respect do you not own some of this?
No it's not harsh I live it everyday. There is no drug use involved that I'm aware of she is a part of the entitled generation, are you aware of them? Oh she is a sweetheart on the outside just a terror to her family. Own what? that we afforded her every opportunity? She doesn't have any debt like others.

I'm sorry that you hate your daughter. That is very sad.

Your posts about your daughter comes across as hateful towards her.

@Plaid Pants2 The only one that used the word hate is YOU.

I think her posts come across as jealousy towards her daughter who apparently from reading this post was given a lot of material things but no love. Apparently there was a price tag on it. How terrible to say you give your dd hints to leave so you can travel? Love to see what your daughter says about your cold attitude towards her.

I agree!

Wow... I have a feeling she even resented the basics. Giving things is not love...

I feel very sad for this child.

Some people do not deserve to have children.

beckyb1012 · ‎03-09-2010

I would do it again in a heartbeat. I have never regretted becoming a Mom. I always wanted a boy and thought maybe as many as four of them at one time in the early years of my marriage but was only blessed with one. I never wanted a girl but as a Grandmother of a little girl it is the best thing in the whole wide world.

"Live frugally, but love extravagantly."

ANewHue · ‎11-21-2011

@AngusandBuddhasMom wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
@Plaid Pants2 wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
@momtochloe wrote:
@ANewHue wrote:
We have one child that we had later in life. She was our blessing that we thought would never be. Now she is our biggest headache. The answer to your question is NO. All our money was spent on her education. She is ungrateful. We missed a lot of things in life because we were spending our time and cash raising her properly and giving her opportunities that we didn't have. At this point we want her out so we can enjoy traveling and getting back to having some fun but she's not taking the hint.

Yikes, ouch . . . . unless she is on drugs or has been arrested this is kind of harsh. With all due respect do you not own some of this?
No it's not harsh I live it everyday. There is no drug use involved that I'm aware of she is a part of the entitled generation, are you aware of them? Oh she is a sweetheart on the outside just a terror to her family. Own what? that we afforded her every opportunity? She doesn't have any debt like others.

I'm sorry that you hate your daughter. That is very sad.

Your posts about your daughter comes across as hateful towards her.

@Plaid Pants2 The only one that used the word hate is YOU.

I think her posts come across as jealousy towards her daughter who apparently from reading this post was given a lot of material things but no love. Apparently there was a price tag on it. How terrible to say you give your dd hints to leave so you can travel? Love to see what your daughter says about your cold attitude towards her.

@AngusandBuddhasMom you or any of the other posters can think all you want . I know what I have and she is way past acting like a spoiled rebellious teenager, No we want her to get on with her life so we can get on with ours, little things like living in peace. We gave her for way over two decades, time, patience, love and every opportunity to succeed. Since she's an only she's just taking it easy so she can inherit it all, boy is she in for a rude awakening someday.

Evie2004 · ‎09-09-2010

After we had our 2 sons, we struggled to decide to have a 3rd baby, as I really wanted a daughter, due to some health problems, no #3, but God knew what He was doing...we now have 3 granddaughters to spoil & adore! Couldn't have planned it better!

Bluffbaker · ‎03-19-2011

Although the world has changed and, at times, become scarier than when I was growing up, I would absolutely still have children. The only thing I'd do different is have more of them!

Bluffbaker · ‎03-19-2011

Although the world has changed and, at times, become scarier than when I was growing up, I would absolutely still have children. The only thing I'd do differently is have more of them!