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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 Christmas Balls said:
On 12/22/2014 evelomaddict said:
On 12/22/2014 santaslittlehelper said: What a coincidence. Poster started a thread this afternoon asking "Where's RR?"

she probably felt that rr would understand knowing she's had the same problems.

the holiday season is missed on many on this forum.

santa won't look kindly on many of these posts.

You must have missed the OPs post where she said:

...her mom gets on the phone screaming, telling me- I am a piece of poop- a blank for calling her dd(foul word for a female) and a wh*re.

I'm sure good ol' Santa is real pleased with that one.

you misunderstood her post. she said that the girlfriends mother called her those names for she phoned her daughter (the girlfriend.)

"I am a piece of poop- a blank for calling her dd(foul word for a female) and a wh*re. This lady doesn't know me, never met me - - I've been married for almost forever- my husband is the second person ive ever been with.

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 Pepper Minstix said:

Nobody knows for certain if the OP is RRR. What if it's not and it's genuinely someone hurting emotionally. Obviously those making fun or being mean to her says more about you than the OP.

sadly this is true. a little kindness goes a long way.

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 evelomaddict said:
On 12/22/2014 Pepper Minstix said:

Nobody knows for certain if the OP is RRR. What if it's not and it's genuinely someone hurting emotionally. Obviously those making fun or being mean to her says more about you than the OP.

sadly this is true. a little kindness goes a long way.

RRR was fiction. The author played on the sympathy of others for the fun of it and now she's back for another go at it.
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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 NoelSeven said:
On 12/22/2014 Pepper Minstix said:

Nobody knows for certain if the OP is RRR. What if it's not and it's genuinely someone hurting emotionally. Obviously those making fun or being mean to her says more about you than the OP.

It's the same story: mother with a personal issue, angry son with a woman the OP hates. Son hates mother, mother doesn't see she caused the problem. Exact same story. What are the odds?

Noel, did you happen to read the thread about the worst gifts ever received? I think it's on the beauty board.

It seems like a lot of mil's and dil's really dislike each other! I never knew my mil...she died before I ever met her, and I have a great relationship with my dil.

But...reading this board...I think a lot of family relationships might involve similar people.

Out of all the families in this country....there could be more than one woman who posts something similar here.

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 evelomaddict said:
On 12/22/2014 Christmas Balls said:
On 12/22/2014 evelomaddict said:
On 12/22/2014 santaslittlehelper said: What a coincidence. Poster started a thread this afternoon asking "Where's RR?"

she probably felt that rr would understand knowing she's had the same problems.

the holiday season is missed on many on this forum.

santa won't look kindly on many of these posts.

You must have missed the OPs post where she said:

...her mom gets on the phone screaming, telling me- I am a piece of poop- a blank for calling her dd(foul word for a female) and a wh*re.

I'm sure good ol' Santa is real pleased with that one.

you misunderstood her post. she said that the girlfriends mother called her those names for she phoned her daughter (the girlfriend.)

"I am a piece of poop- a blank for calling her dd(foul word for a female) and a wh*re. This lady doesn't know me, never met me - - I've been married for almost forever- my husband is the second person ive ever been with.

No.

Read it again and the posts prior to this one that say the same thing I did.

Her son's GF's mother was speaking to the OP. Her son's GF's mother called the OP a piece of poop for calling her DD (the GF of her son) a foul word for a female and a wh*re.

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 september said:
On 12/22/2014 NoelSeven said:
On 12/22/2014 Pepper Minstix said:

Nobody knows for certain if the OP is RRR. What if it's not and it's genuinely someone hurting emotionally. Obviously those making fun or being mean to her says more about you than the OP.

It's the same story: mother with a personal issue, angry son with a woman the OP hates. Son hates mother, mother doesn't see she caused the problem. Exact same story. What are the odds?

Noel, did you happen to read the thread about the worst gifts ever received? I think it's on the beauty board.

It seems like a lot of mil's and dil's really dislike each other! I never knew my mil...she died before I ever met her, and I have a great relationship with my dil.

But...reading this board...I think a lot of family relationships might involve similar people.

Out of all the families in this country....there could be more than one woman who posts something similar here.

It was never just a story of DIL/MIL issues, it was much more than that. It was always a game for the author, to see how far she could take it. If people want to tag along for another ride, so be it.
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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

I just read the thread for the 1st time....something about it rings "familiar"....a former poster? Like how everyone hates the OP, but (she) "never saw it coming". That....I find hard to believe. There's always a common denominator w/ stuff like this.

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

On 12/22/2014 NoelSeven said:
On 12/22/2014 september said:
On 12/22/2014 NoelSeven said:
On 12/22/2014 Pepper Minstix said:

Nobody knows for certain if the OP is RRR. What if it's not and it's genuinely someone hurting emotionally. Obviously those making fun or being mean to her says more about you than the OP.

It's the same story: mother with a personal issue, angry son with a woman the OP hates. Son hates mother, mother doesn't see she caused the problem. Exact same story. What are the odds?

Noel, did you happen to read the thread about the worst gifts ever received? I think it's on the beauty board.

It seems like a lot of mil's and dil's really dislike each other! I never knew my mil...she died before I ever met her, and I have a great relationship with my dil.

But...reading this board...I think a lot of family relationships might involve similar people.

Out of all the families in this country....there could be more than one woman who posts something similar here.

It was never just a story of DIL/MIL issues, it was much more than that. It was always a game for the author, to see how far she could take it. If people want to tag along for another ride, so be it.

No one starts off on a MB, especially in VP, revealing this amount of personal info.

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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

Fact or fiction, I would not assume that OP is RRR. It could be real it could be someone doing an RRR spin-off.
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Re: Feeling devastated tonight

the poster said that they're a regular poster that was too embarrassed to post under their real user name.

"I can assure you I am a real poster - embarrassed to admit my ds feels this way under my other name."

anyway, happy holidays to all!

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