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Does anyone "favor" a child or g-child over another? I know sometime it can't be helped. I know I do,but I can't help it. My son has 4 children, 1 girl 19,3 boys 12,9, & 7. Daughter is by different mom than boys. I guess I treated her differently when she was small & there was such a gap in ages.

Now my 7 yr old g-son has me "wrapped around his finger". He has an absolutely adorable personality. The 12 yr old is @ "teenage stage", the 9 yr old & I just never "bonded". He was the only 1 I never kept much as a baby. The 12 yr & I were close at some time,but he is just at that "stage" now.

I feel guilty sometime for feeling as I do. The 7 yr old has my Daddy's personality, & I was a daddy's girl. Does this seem like the reason?? He is so observant & knowledgeable for his age. He is like being with an adult. Is this unfair to the other 2 boys? I try to treat them all the same,but I know I don't at times.