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Registered: ‎03-23-2010

Don't know what I need..Some one to listen, some one to share if experiencing the same

or what but...

Am having to stay in an unhappy marriage because of of the economy.We are comfortable now as far as money goes. Have $ to buy some extras, have IRAs, $ in bank,some stocks. Can't sell the house because we would lose quite a bit on it because of this current economy. We try to keep our distance because we really bug each other & we end up in a shouting match.

He does his thing & I do mine. Now he says he wants us to work ( I don't believe that. Think he is miserable but doesn't want to admit this marriage is a failure) but I don't see that happening. I really am, it seems, in a hopeless situation & want out. But I can't see how. There are days where I go with the flow & then there are days where emotionally, I am a wreck.

Divorce is not an option at this point in time. We would lose much if we had to legally settle money-wise right now.

Is there any one who is experiencing the same right now & how are you getting by emotionally? I would appreciate any input. Thank you in advance,

Sandee