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Does it bother you to be alone or do you value solitude?

Carried over from the boredom thread.

 

A favorite Thoreau quote (one of many)

 

“I would rather sit on a pumpkin, and have it all to myself, than be crowded on a velvet cushion”

 

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Re: Does it bother you to be alone or do you value solitude?

I spend most of my time alone, am good at entertaining myself and enjoy my own company.  I'm very happy.

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Re: Does it bother you to be alone or do you value solitude?

I prefer to be alone....

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Re: Does it bother you to be alone or do you value solitude?

I value solitude.  My grandchildren tell me I could entertain myself in a jail cell!  Not sure how to take that!!

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Re: Does it bother you to be alone or do you value solitude?

I'm quite content to be alone - I'm alone now and listening to Tony Bennet and Lady GaGa on PBS.

 

In about a half hour, we're going out to dinner.

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Re: Does it bother you to be alone or do you value solitude?

Anyone who doesn't enjoy his own company isn't fit for the company of others. 

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OMG! I scored 15 out of 15 on the Myers-Briggs introversion scale! I am an introvert at the deepest level, but have excellent social skills. Most who meet me think I'm an extrovert, but no no no no, I am an INTROvert who loves to be alone! That's where my battery gets recharged. Too much time around people and I feel like screaming. I have been widowed seven years and cannot imagine getting married again - love my solitary life - unless it was to someone who was as introverted as I.

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Re: Does it bother you to be alone or do you value solitude?

I need my solitude. 

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I have been alone for so long now, that I think it would be very difficult at my age to adjust to living with someone.  There are times when companionship is missed, but still value my privacy...... 

 

There are times when I am sorry that I didn't have any children, but was not fortunate in that....  It would be nice to have a phone call from one if I had one, or just for either he or she to stop by and check in on me.  Especially now since I am battling cancer.  But, my friends do a pretty darn good job of being here for me. 

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i'm condsidered a social butterfly, but when I come home, i dlo love solitude even though i am married.  he's very understanding.