Community Chat

[Classylady]

Yes I do and yes I married him.  The love of my life.  We've been married almost 53 years and my heart still jumps when he walks in the house.  We've been through alot together, 2 cancers for him,  a heart attack and bypass surgery just last month.  We plan to hang together for several more years.  He is awesome.

[June222]

I remember him......I also remember he told me I had ugly feet.....that is what he left me with and now I always am ashamed of my feet. I told my now hubby of 35 years that, and he says my feet are beautiful.......

[ROMARY]

Yes, I've been (often) now wondering what happened to that cute boy!  Tall, handsome, very nice, somewhat shy.  Of course, since I wasn't very 'outgoing', the more aggressive girls were after him, and succeeded in their attempts, from what I heard.  Oh, well.  Wild women and all.............(lol).

[Puzzle Piece]

No.  I guess I had a crush or two but not love.  I view love differently.  I have to like first. 

Love comes with time and depends on how much love one has for oneself. 

[LilacTree]

Yes.   No.

[jaxs mom]

I guess I remember him, I mean I'm not that old that I've lost my memory or anything. No I don't think about him at all and LOL no I didn't marry him. That's just mind boggling to me. 

[Suzeecat]

VickiV, what a beautiful post, you have truly been blessed to have such a pure, everlasting love.  I am so sorry that you have lost him on this earth, but you thankfully have some beautiful memories. 

As for me, I have been married twice and had a couple other serious relationships.  In all I felt love in different ways, some passionate and painful, others warm and caring.  Some I didn't know I was truly in love until I felt the pain after the relationship ended.  I am alone now, and do always think about the past relationships I have had, what worked, what didn't and what I learned from them.  No regrets. 

[viva923]

I did have a love before my husband.  every now=then i do think of him and wonder if he is still married.

he married a rival girl who i was in nurse school with after high school.  i was not a friend of hers at all.

i have bee married in the 40+++ yrs range and would not change anything.

[circles]

Oh, yes....I do remember him...after 40 years he contacted me and we had an e-mail correspondence and occasional he would call...

I was already married and divorced when that took place....he was married...

There was no love connection ...just a friendship....he use to talk to my then boyfriend more then me....haha...they both loved fishing...so they had that in common...

Unfortunately he died about three years ago....

[ciao_bella]

Ahhhh yes..such nice memories.  No, never married him..