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Do You Get Sad This Time Of Year

I am much better off than some, but I have to admit this time of year makes me sad. I think about getting older, what I haven't accomplished, loved ones that I have lost. I just find it hard to get into the holiday spirit.

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Re: Do You Get Sad This Time Of Year

I miss those who have left way too soon, but I'm so grateful that they were in my life. 

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Re: Do You Get Sad This Time Of Year

I deliberately do things that are very "holiday"

 

I like to browse the malls, so pretty.

I listen to Christmas music.

I be sure to donate to my favorite causes.

I go to Christmas concerts.

 

I do everything I can to stay positive and in the Christmas spirit.

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Re: Do You Get Sad This Time Of Year

I tend to get nostalgic this time of year and it can make me sad.  I avoid the New Year's Eve hoopla as I don't like all of the "looking back" stuff that happens in all the media.

 

I think there is just a lot of pressure for people to be happy-happy during the Holidays and it can make people feel that there's something wrong with them if they're not feeling it.

 

I like New Year's Day.  A new year!  A fresh start!  

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Re: Do You Get Sad This Time Of Year

My soul crys for my son ,shane,and my husband, that is every day, i compare how great christmas use to be,and how lonely it is now.

When you lose some one you L~O~V~E, that Memory of them, becomes a TREASURE.
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Re: Do You Get Sad This Time Of Year

@goldensrbest 

 

I'm so sorry for your heartache.  I wish you peace.

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Re: Do You Get Sad This Time Of Year


@goldensrbest wrote:

My soul crys for my son ,shane,and my husband, that is every day, i compare how great christmas use to be,and how lonely it is now.


@goldensrbest 

 

Sending you ♥️♥️♥️ & {{{{{soft hugs}}}}}.

 

May the Joy of your wonderful memories bring comfort to you.

 

 

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Re: Do You Get Sad This Time Of Year

I hate to sound like sad Sally, but I am tremendously sad right now. Just totally overwhelmed. 

My husband is not doing well at all (2 calls to 911 in the last 7 days, while we were out trying to do things)  and I am just beside myself. 

Christmas and the New Year can't leave fast enough. I just want to get in bed and curl up in the fetal position. So much sadness and stress. 


Why is it, when I have a 50/50 guess at something, I'm always 100% wrong?
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Re: Do You Get Sad This Time Of Year

  • Jordan:  Your post describes exactly how I feel during the Christmas season.  Health issues make it hard to do some of the things I'd like to do.
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Re: Do You Get Sad This Time Of Year

@gidgetgh I am so sorry! I hope health for your family will improve.