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Hi Ladies,

Just a quick question on a sensitive matter regarding holiday gift giving. I have a friend whom I have known over 35 years - we have grown apart and I no longer live near her so we don't spend holidays together. We don't talk all year, not even an email.

My problem is each Christmas she sends a holiday gift - usually something sweet / chocolate (I can't eat it as am diabetic). I want to tell her that her gesture is thoughtful but not necessary. I am getting tired of the sending gifts to her as well - this year I ended up sending two as there was a mixup with delivery.

Don't want this to come across as a bah humbug post - it's just that I am no longer close (or even slightly acquainted) with this lady anymore and it's getting more and more uncomfortable each year. How do I say it nicely? Or do I just let it continue?

Thanks for any help and advice.