I am a very responsible person, however circumstances in life beyond my control happened. Always had low balances and an excellent credit score.
I was the caregiver for my Mom who passed away from cancer, did that for over three years. Two siblings who did nothing. I lost over three years of personal income because of that, would still do it all over again for my Mom.
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Since then I have worked three jobs at different times, now it's two because I have one job that's better and pays more. One of of my siblings who is a horrible person is the reason that I can't sell my parents home four years later now.
I'm hard working and responsible, my credit card debt is what it is because of four years of high property taxes that I shouldn't have to be paying and I can't afford to just write a check. I'm not out buying expensive clothing, handbags, jewelry, cars, electronics , or anything else. I treat myself once in a while because I work for it.
Try not stereotyping people and try empathy, judge not lest you be judged. You never know someone else's life circumstances, and one day the same could happen to you.
I am loathe to post anything about my personal financial situation because of some judgemental and gossipy people here. But I'm so sick of the stereotyping and tunnel vision and lack of empathy.
"Those who do not remember the past are condemned to repeat it.”