Baby shower doubts...

bargainsgirl · ‎01-13-2012

I am invited to an indoor baby shower in October. Not sure how many people. I know there are social distancing and mask requirements in place but I am not comfortable going to a function where I will only know my sister and the MTB. I am 67 and have been very cautious about my outing to avoid Covid. My sister understands( it is her step daughter-in-law) and said it's ok with her if I do not attend. I am not close with the MTB I would only go cause it is my sister's stepson/wife. Am I being too cautious?

QVCkitty1 · ‎05-23-2015

You won't enjoy yourself if you don't free comfortable. Send a nice gift, that will be fine.

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RetRN · ‎10-01-2013

No, you are using common sense. Why take such a risk? I would hope that others also decline to attend if they are over 60 or have any health conditon.

Anonymous032819 · ‎03-29-2019

@bargainsgirl

No, you're not being too cautious.

Send a card and a gift card for something, or a small gift plus your regrets.

Sounds like your sister will understand.

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kaydee50 · ‎02-07-2011

I'm not in favor of baby showers regardless and if I were you, I would not go.

Krimpette · ‎03-09-2010

I don't understand why people can't do virtual showers at a time like this. Saves the anxiety that the guests probably feel over whether or not to attend.

PA Mom-mom · ‎05-27-2015

@bargainsgirl If you are uncomfortable, don't go. And, you are not being too cautious! Send a nice present - you can order something on Amazon and even have sent directly to the recipient (unless it's a surprise). The showers I've been invited to have all been outside; but even so, the invitations have specified no need to attend if you are uncomfortable.

Porcelain · ‎02-19-2014

They would probably be more nervous with you physically there. They would want to take extra care to arrange things and protect you at your age. I agree send a great gift and your love.

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