@Moonchilde wrote:
@cherry wrote:
@Stormygirl @Moonchilde is the best isn't she? I know she has been a great friend to you. I hope she considers me as a friend ,also
Her posts are always interesting, and informative, well thought out. She is one smart lady
Aww, you two! @cherry and @Stormygirl ❤️❤️❤️
Your words mean more than you know - especially in this thread. I very much consider both of you good friends 😻, and people who “get” me.
One of the reasons I appreciate you both so much is that if you disagree with me, you’ll simply say why you see it a different way, without judgment or the assumption that I live to be a nasty b****. And I’ll attempt to clarify because with you, I know it isn’t a trap.
We can all misunderstand each other from time to time on these forums regarding a particular topic. I absolutely love it when someone I may have “crossed words” with on a particular topic is okay with staring the playing field over, level, in other threads (as I try hard to do). I have made forum friends with a few people in this way.
But there will also always be those who are determined not to like you whatever you say, and respond not so much to what you said, or ask you to clarify in sincerity, but just respond in a hostile manner wherever and whenever because they have decided they.don’t.like.you, full stop. Sometimes veiled, sometimes not - usually not much, lol.
I am used to that too. I’ve been on internet forums, the type with NO moderation and no holds barred, for 25 years. I see and know, and have an extremely accurate radar for those who wish to play me or wish me ill.
With one person, I have honestly tried. I have agreed in other topics. I have complimented. I have done what I could in various threads to “start over.” It has all come to nothing, and I will try no more from this point. It is what it is. I know that my heart was in the right place, and that’s enough for me.
This is a happy Sunday for me, to have both of you feeling well enough to post. Nothing is going to spoil that for me.
I hope that I am not a person that hurts your feelings or those of anyone else.Ifi do please give me the chance to explain.I try to be understanding of people but sometimes the things I say don't come out the way I intended.I think that the most hurtful people are always very unhappy and want others to feel that way too.I find that when I continue to be nice to them they just don't get it and some just give up the attack after awhile.
happy that you had a great Sunday and wasn't it a nice surprise to have a visit from Stormy.
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