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‎03-15-2015 08:26 PM
‎03-15-2015 08:28 PM
‎03-15-2015 08:29 PM
Simple: She may have gotten very dependent on that money, and figured Mom had earned it-and she needed it more than the SS office did. Probably happens every day.
‎03-15-2015 08:30 PM
‎03-15-2015 08:32 PM
On 3/15/2015 KathyPet said: No she was perfectly well spoken. She is a mother, a grandmother and she and her husband both have or had good well paying jobs.
Thanks. I was trying to figure out why her mother supposedly told her she was entitled to the SS payments:/
‎03-15-2015 08:33 PM
‎03-15-2015 08:33 PM
She got caught plain and simple. Doh!
‎03-15-2015 08:36 PM
Not only should she do time in jail but repay that money. Clearly, there is a failure in the ss system that can't catch these type of offenses. When my mother-in-law passed away I got on the phone with social security within days to report it....I was only in my 30's. Gee, how did I know to do that?
‎03-15-2015 08:37 PM
‎03-15-2015 08:37 PM
Who on earth handled the mother's estate? You are required to report the death to Social Security immediately. If it's at the end of the month, you can keep what your mother was paid for that month to handle the estate. If the death occurs in the middle or first of the month, SS will reclaim the amount left immediately. Usually, the funeral director will give you all the information about death certificates, etc. Many places require a death certificate before anything else happens. Life Insurance particularly needs a certificate, and you can't trust them to say they got it unless you send it signature required. Unless you are a joint tenant right to survivorship on an account or a designated power of attorney, you can't take any of those funds without going through proper channels. If there is real property, you have to probate the estate. Medicare requires a notice of death as well. If all these steps were taken, I find it hard to believe that SS did not contact the inheritor of the estate immediately. I also wonder with computers, why it took 30 years to notice no one was using medicare benefits. I too wonder if this person was mentally challenged, in which case, someone should have stepped in. And the last I checked, the law doesn't accept ignorance as an excuse. How could anyone grow up in this country and not know most of the important details regarding death. I suspect she thought she could get some easy money and not be caught....she was right, at least for 30 years.
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