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Re: o/t Bachelor Finale- Spoiler!!!!!!

I believe Chris knew it was Whitney but the show must go on and make it look like he is having difficulty deciding. They are very much in love. Perhaps at some point in her life she can go back to some type of nursing. Maybe for Sr. citizens in Arlington & surrounding areas. I really wish them well and so glad Chris' family is so welcoming to Whitney.

Some of the other women trying to win Chris' heart were too high maintenance and never would have made it in Arlington. That one girl that lost her husband was a very intelligent girl but also very troubled mentally. I wonder what the life expectancy is for this show. It's been on for a long time now.

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Re: o/t Bachelor Finale- Spoiler!!!!!!

On 3/10/2015 ury said:

Whitney does talk a lot. Did Chris say he owned 800 acres? There's lots of places to hide in 800 acres! Seriously, his family likes Whitney. That meant a lot to Chris. Plus, Becca was so fearful acting. Indecisive. Whitney is a better catch than anything Chris could find in town, no doubt.

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He seemed to really like Becca as she didn't want him as much. But, I think he was smart enough to know that if he is looking for someone who wants to be a wife, Whitney would be the best bet. I'm sure his family also told him to choose Whitney. Becca was just too indecisive. I think had she not been, he'd have chosen her as she wasn't acting as infatuated with him.

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Re: o/t Bachelor Finale- Spoiler!!!!!!

On 3/10/2015 colliegirls said:
On 3/10/2015 jump4joy said: Totally agree! Whitney was chosen by default. It was clear that he cared deeply for Becca. I don't think that Chris looked particularly happy during the After the Rose ceremony. I thought the hug and embrace that he gave Becca said it all. To me, it seemed he didn't want to let her go ... Sad. Whitney's voice and constant talking may drive him away. I doubt that Whitney will even make it to the farm to live! Time will tell!

I did not get that vibe at all, I felt he liked Whitney all along. Becca was sweet and sincere but you could tell that she was not ready to commit.

Becca was strange aside from the virgin part. She never dated or brought a boyfriend home. She is too old for that even if she is in her lower 20's. She is indecisive. I wonder how long it will take her to date someone.

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Re: o/t Bachelor Finale- Spoiler!!!!!!

On 3/10/2015 jump4joy said: Totally agree! Whitney was chosen by default. It was clear that he cared deeply for Becca. I don't think that Chris looked particularly happy during the After the Rose ceremony. I thought the hug and embrace that he gave Becca said it all. To me, it seemed he didn't want to let her go ... Sad. Whitney's voice and constant talking may drive him away. I doubt that Whitney will even make it to the farm to live! Time will tell!

I think he was infatuated with Becca and he wanted what he couldn't have.

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I thought it was very odd that Becca did not ever have a boyfriend or been in love. At 26??? She could have been in love and still a virgin, but never had a boyfriend?? That is unusual.

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Becca has serious commitment issues. Too bad cause I think Chris really wanted her. She has never been in love. She was truly very beautiful. too bad. I was surprised that he chose Whitney. I thought he would not choose either one.

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Good, let's dish! The show is clearly heavily scripted, and make certain women look like "the one" to throw us off track and keep us coming back . It certainly appeared that Chris was more into Becca, and Whitney more into Chris. If you Google spoilers, they seem possibly true. Chris will be on Dancing with the Stars which is recorded in Ca. I had read Chris moves to Ca. and was possibly sneaking around seeing Becca. BTW, anyone think Whitney's voice is similar to Lacey Chabert? She sure does talk a lot. Chris looked bored and like he had tuned out the last episode, but who knows how many times it was rehearsed? Maybe that was the reason.

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Chris sighs a lot. I do think he's getting weary of the limelight. Probably agreed to Dancing With The Stars to cover the cost of no farming over the past year. My husband, daughter (long distance) and I watch the show and dish about it. She texts us while watching. It's fun. Husband didn't like Becca. She was too challenging and indecisive and that gets old. Chris would have to reassure her constantly. I don't know think men are that patient! Whitney is devoted. Men do like that... I think Chris loved it that Whitney liked his family.

So, how's the Bachelorette going to work with 2 women?

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Ury, some guys do like the unattainable and Whitney made it crystal clear that she was all in! On the other hand, Chris' family did appear to like Whitney much better. She is certainly the logical choice, but love and logic don't go together.

I got the impression that both girls were going to stay for the whole season of Bachelorette, but the way Jimmy Kimmel was talking, maybe the bachelors will vote which one stays?

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I hope the Bachelorette doesn't turn into a cat fight. That would be too much like the Bachelor.

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