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Re: kcladyz how are you doing?

On 3/8/2015 Persephonel said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said: Oh my, I'm so sorry. Do you have a friend or neighbor who can help you out until you get things resolved?

Nope none of my friends offered me any help. one girl a work offered me a ride but the time I am needing it she is at work. I have a friend in florida that wanted to send me money but then the time I get it it will be too late so i told him to just forget about it

Have you actually asked for help and been turned down? Sometimes people don't think to offer and you have to ask. Even your boss.
that's what I was thinking too

Actually I am not sure why she said none of her friends offered her any help- the girl at work did and the friend from Florida offered to send her some money. That sounds like help from friends?

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Re: kcladyz how are you doing?

On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said: Oh my, I'm so sorry. Do you have a friend or neighbor who can help you out until you get things resolved?

Nope none of my friends offered me any help. one girl a work offered me a ride but the time I am needing it she is at work. I have a friend in florida that wanted to send me money but then the time I get it it will be too late so i told him to just forget about it

Have you actually asked for help and been turned down? Sometimes people don't think to offer and you have to ask. Even your boss.

Ge? do you think?

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Re: kcladyz how are you doing?

On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said: Oh my, I'm so sorry. Do you have a friend or neighbor who can help you out until you get things resolved?

Nope none of my friends offered me any help. one girl a work offered me a ride but the time I am needing it she is at work. I have a friend in florida that wanted to send me money but then the time I get it it will be too late so i told him to just forget about it

Have you actually asked for help and been turned down? Sometimes people don't think to offer and you have to ask. Even your boss.

Ge? do you think?

Wow, I don't think that deserved a snotty answer- I think the poster was legitimately wondering if you asked because some people don't like to ask for help when they need it.

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Re: kcladyz how are you doing?

On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 Crisso said:
On 3/8/2015 HappyDaze said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said: Oh my, I'm so sorry. Do you have a friend or neighbor who can help you out until you get things resolved?

Nope none of my friends offered me any help. one girl a work offered me a ride but the time I am needing it she is at work. I have a friend in florida that wanted to send me money but then the time I get it it will be too late so i told him to just forget about it

Have you actually asked for help and been turned down? Sometimes people don't think to offer and you have to ask. Even your boss.

Ge? do you think?

Wow, I don't think that deserved a snotty answer- I think the poster was legitimately wondering if you asked because some people don't like to ask for help when they need it.

Too many hair products....Wink

First of all I am under lot of stress so I do apologize to that person even tho i thought it was a rude question. Why would I not have asked for help? And why are you harassing me? Do you enjoy hurting people when you hear they are going threw hard times? You are a truly awful person.

And you do realize this thread is between me and the person that created it and its not for you to post and comment on. Oh I forgot you one of those people that go out of their way to cause trouble.

What? No matter what, these forums are open to all who want to post. What a truly odd thing to say.


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Re: kcladyz how are you doing?

On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:

First of all I am under lot of stress so I do apologize to that person even tho i thought it was a rude question. Why would I not have asked for help? And why are you harassing me? Do you enjoy hurting people when you hear they are going threw hard times? You are a truly awful person.

And you do realize this thread is between me and the person that created it and its not for you to post and comment on. Oh I forgot you one of those people that go out of their way to cause trouble.

Writing on A Public Forum Is Like Asking People Not to Look At Someone Running Around Naked.

I think everyone on this thread has tried to be kind and understanding. Perhaps you are not familiar with this type of behavior which may be confusing to you.

Perhaps your insurance company didn't advise you but you should have coverage for a rental car for specific reasons like this. It can be $25 dollars a day and most rental car companies would work with you and your insurance company.

I know this to be true because someone went through a red light and totaled my car a few years ago. I had rental car insurance and used it. Perhaps you need to speak with your insurance company. Usually, there is a 24hour number you can call for this information.

Often, we rely on spouses, children or siblings for assistance in the matter. At least, I would.

I wouldn't give an internet "acquaintance my banking information" but then I wouldn't offer an internet "acquaintance" money.

I, as I am sure everyone else, hope that you can get your personal situation resolved. As a suggestion, try to be pleasant to the insurance company and the repair station. If you are pleasant to others, then will reciprocate.

Good Luck!

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And if you lost or misplaced your bank cards, often these companies can fed ex you a new card in 1 day.

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Re: kcladyz how are you doing?

On 3/8/2015 DogLvr said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:

First of all I am under lot of stress so I do apologize to that person even tho i thought it was a rude question. Why would I not have asked for help? And why are you harassing me? Do you enjoy hurting people when you hear they are going threw hard times? You are a truly awful person.

And you do realize this thread is between me and the person that created it and its not for you to post and comment on. Oh I forgot you one of those people that go out of their way to cause trouble.

Writing on A Public Forum Is Like Asking People Not to Look At Someone Running Around Naked.

I think everyone on this thread has tried to be kind and understanding. Perhaps you are not familiar with this type of behavior which may be confusing to you.

Perhaps your insurance company didn't advise you but you should have coverage for a rental car for specific reasons like this. It can be $25 dollars a day and most rental car companies would work with you and your insurance company.

I know this to be true because someone went through a red light and totaled my car a few years ago. I had rental car insurance and used it. Perhaps you need to speak with your insurance company. Usually, there is a 24hour number you can call for this information.

Often, we rely on spouses, children or siblings for assistance in the matter. At least, I would.

I wouldn't give an internet "acquaintance my banking information" but then I wouldn't offer an internet "acquaintance" money.

I, as I am sure everyone else, hope that you can get your personal situation resolved. As a suggestion, try to be pleasant to the insurance company and the repair station. If you are pleasant to others, then will reciprocate.

Good Luck!

We don't have rental insurance, and we have uninsured, comprehensive and many perks.I do not know why. I have only been in one accident, and it was their fault. Their insurance paid though. Boy, were they miffed too (their insurance co) because we needed the rental for over 30 days. There was 6,000 dollars damage from glass shards, as well and the "crunches". They had to ay for a full size suburban, because that is what I have and I picked up 5 grands at the time. It was like 500 plus a week! This was 11 years ago.

We have 2 harleys and 3 cars. I have to check on rental insurance.


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Re: kcladyz how are you doing?

On 3/8/2015 HappyDaze said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said: Oh my, I'm so sorry. Do you have a friend or neighbor who can help you out until you get things resolved?

Nope none of my friends offered me any help. one girl a work offered me a ride but the time I am needing it she is at work. I have a friend in florida that wanted to send me money but then the time I get it it will be too late so i told him to just forget about it

Have you actually asked for help and been turned down? Sometimes people don't think to offer and you have to ask. Even your boss.

Ge? do you think?

Wow, I don't think that deserved a snotty answer- I think the poster was legitimately wondering if you asked because some people don't like to ask for help when they need it.

Thank you Happy. I was legitimately concerned. Wow, sorry I cared. Goes to show that some people on these boards find negativity where there is none. Anyhow, I wish the OP the best and hope all works out.
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Re: kcladyz how are you doing?

On 3/8/2015 suzyQ3 said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 Crisso said:
On 3/8/2015 HappyDaze said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said:
On 3/8/2015 kcladyz said:
On 3/8/2015 K9buddy said: Oh my, I'm so sorry. Do you have a friend or neighbor who can help you out until you get things resolved?

Nope none of my friends offered me any help. one girl a work offered me a ride but the time I am needing it she is at work. I have a friend in florida that wanted to send me money but then the time I get it it will be too late so i told him to just forget about it

Have you actually asked for help and been turned down? Sometimes people don't think to offer and you have to ask. Even your boss.

Ge? do you think?

Wow, I don't think that deserved a snotty answer- I think the poster was legitimately wondering if you asked because some people don't like to ask for help when they need it.

Too many hair products....Wink

First of all I am under lot of stress so I do apologize to that person even tho i thought it was a rude question. Why would I not have asked for help? And why are you harassing me? Do you enjoy hurting people when you hear they are going threw hard times? You are a truly awful person.

And you do realize this thread is between me and the person that created it and its not for you to post and comment on. Oh I forgot you one of those people that go out of their way to cause trouble.

What? No matter what, these forums are open to all who want to post. What a truly odd thing to say.

Exactly. These are forums, not a way for people to have private conversations. And it seems to me that every person who posted & commented were truly caring and trying to help.

I saw no hurting or harrassing, and I don't think anyone here deserves to be called "a truly awful person". Yes, I understand being under stress, but there's no need to lash out at people who are reaching out and being kind.

Can't the friend in Florida send money overnight? Just a suggestion.

I really do hope that everything works out quickly and well for the OP.

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It's just my own personal observation, but it appears to me that in one of her latest comments, she might have been addressing the unhelpful and hurtful comment about the hair products that was made to her.

I am truly sorry that this accident happened to you, too, kcladyz. I hope that it resolves really soon for you.