Silverandgold, I know exactly what you mean! I tried that Laura Geller eyebrow product that came in the tube and has a little brush on it. It was supposed to be taupe but it was soooooo red. Talk about creepy looking. I felt like one of those clowns that scare small children.
I have a very old Smashbox product that I recently started using out of my stash. I'm pretty sure it is the taupe that terrier3 mentioned. It is a two-sided pan with powder on one side and a finishing wax on the other. I like the color, though there is way too much powder relative to the finishing wax. I'm out of wax, but still have plenty of powder. So I put Mally gel brow product (in a green metallic mascara-like wand) over top of it.
I prefer a powder because I can get finer, more natural looking dispersion, and smooth out any heavy application areas with a brush and wax or gel.