@Shanus I rarely ever deep condition. I shower in the morning, so often not enough time. i do try to Olaplex once a week, but if I'm in a hurry, I'll use the Redken bond builder which is really quick.
I mostly got my information about the curly girl method from groups. There was one on FB I joined and really liked because it was open to all sorts of methods. Suddenly, it became all about using only water soluble proudcts and the list of those was very limiting. The Admin of that group has a line of curly hair products and his wife is a curly hair hairdresser, so of course their line of products was on the list. However, one of their styling products contains beeswax, so how can that be water soluble? I'm still a member, but mostly just lurk as I was invited to leave once by the main mod even though I had been an active member of that group before she had even been a member. I just questioned why the group had changed to water soluble only after being open to all methods without even an announcement.
Most of the curly method groups are very limiting much like the low carb groups. If you don't follow exactly what that group espouses, you're banned. But, I found another more accepting group for "curly method rejects". I just don't believe there is only one way to do things.