Beauty

[Kokathy]

Beaches, I know. I've stopped fighting for him and now I am choosing to live my life. I've wasted so much time rearranging my schedule around him and dealing with his drama. I've been paying attention to what people say and what the universe tells me and I know I am on the right path.

Funny thing is today he called my godmother (his aunt) to check on his uncle to see how he was dealing with the Lou Gehrig's disease. He has never called her but I think because I posted a cute pic of my mom with family from this weekend on facebook and I ignored his birthday text to me, it's getting to him.

I am trying to figure out the drink for me. I may get crystal light peach mix and drink that or figure out how to make a peach margarita.

[ANewHue]

On 5/29/2014 Kokathy said:

Beaches, I know. I've stopped fighting for him and now I am choosing to live my life. I've wasted so much time rearranging my schedule around him and dealing with his drama. I've been paying attention to what people say and what the universe tells me and I know I am on the right path.

Funny thing is today he called my godmother (his aunt) to check on his uncle to see how he was dealing with the Lou Gehrig's disease. He has never called her but I think because I posted a cute pic of my mom with family from this weekend on facebook and I ignored his birthday text to me, it's getting to him.

I am trying to figure out the drink for me. I may get crystal light peach mix and drink that or figure out how to make a peach margarita.

Hi Kokathy, I have the drink....Bellini's. Chaz posted a recipe a few weeks ago and I wanted to try it. I'll have to see if I can find it and I'll post. I love a good Bellini! Anyway, you need to keep your distance, which it seems like you're doing and let him work on putting his life in order, whether it be for better or worse. I know it's painful when you are a caring loving person but it is very easy to be taken advantage of or blamed for every little thing that goes wrong with his situation.

[bebe777]

On 5/29/2014 chickenmoo said:

On 5/28/2014 beaches21 said: Oh Kokathy thanks so much for thinking of me. Yes, things have gotten even worse and I've been trying to make lemonade with all the lemons that have been in my life lately but as hard as I've been trying I'm not winning the battle. I've been checking in every once in awhile just to see what's going on but I'm not sure if I'll be up for celebrating June yet. I did receive my BGT gallon yesterday so that was a little "happy" to look forward to . As much as I love to talk with you girls and try to contribute to the fun I'm not sure I can deal with the trolls and nasty remarks at this point. I hope things are getting better for you. Your post really meant a lot , thank you!

Beachy, I'm sorry for all you've been through .... Don't feel bad about the trolls--Post if you feel up to it...I've been through my own probs this year too that I'm still struggling with, but I'm going to try to enjoy June and our Q After Dark segments LOL--Don't let the trolls get to you...We can still enjoy our cocktails/mocktails and dream of stockpiles of Wen

Hugs, CM

beaches, it's good to see you around. And I second what chickenmoo said. Do and say whatever you need to do. You're in a bad situation and this should be a safe place for you to let off some steam and share.

Kokathy, I'm so sorry to hear what's you've had to go through as well.

I'm sending good thoughts and heartfelt wishes to both of you.

-- bebe